Yes, no.......maybe???

Exithere's Avatar
So let me throw this out here for fellow mongers to comment on.....

I recently had a meeting with a young lady that I met here, everything went according to plan, screening..... on time.... activities offered..... $$ exchanged.... no problems......

Except........ for.......one .....thing.

During a break in the action she responded to a text and took a phone call and then took another call after we were done and I was about to head out the door. Now maybe I'm a little old fashioned but if I am compensating someone for their their time I feel I have a right to expect their undivided attention during said time, am I right or wrong?

I am planning on a review but have not decided if it will be a "yes" or "no" recommendation, what do you guys think?
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blasphemouse's Avatar
Better be one darn good excuse to look at the phone when I'm paying over 4 bucks a min. If the BCD was mind blowing to the point I forgot she was on the phone, then maybe it will be alright...
Unacceptable behavior on her part. It's the Kiss of Death with me. She got my money once, but she won't get any more.

In an instance when this happened on s first visit and I wrote a review, I gave her a conditional "Yes" but I have not booked with her again.
BD1969's Avatar
Well was the service good?. Rember some of these ladies are young and txting isn't considered rude.. Note some ladies also have people looking out for them incase your a crazy fuck..

As long as all else was cool/good it never really bothers me
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tpepsi's Avatar
If its a serious buzz killer for you, then you should ask the provider at the beginning of the session if she will turn her phone to silent and not use it during your time together.

These ladies are not mind readers, but I find them to usually be accommodating to polite reasonable requests.
It's a business after all & if it was during a break then why let it bother you? Damn some of you mongers are such pussies & considering you pay for pussy, then you are what you eat.
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  • Tetas
  • 05-21-2015, 06:41 PM
Jeeze...some of these guys grade on a curve that's a little ridiculous, trying to give all A's.
Let me just say you're one Teacher I'd NEVER want to deal with, at least the way this reads to me.

Let's elaborate a little:
Everything went fine, good TCB, no probs on donation, she got you off, answered some texts and took a call during down time, climbed back in bed for more fun time then answered the phone again as you were leaving? And you want to give her a "No"?


Edit to add:
Just noticed this is in co-ed...like Von says "Off with her head!" she should NEVER answer the phone or even LOOK at it while I'm in her presence!!!
lol
I think Von was using sarcasm.

It depends who she is. If she has kids and the babysitter has a problem (or it's the school), then no problem. If she is booking the next fucktard, then move the fuck on.
ck1942's Avatar
Also, could be an indicator of "high volume" and always up to the hobbyist(s) to cite chapter and verse -- here's the thing....

My values may be way different than the next hobbyist out there.

So unless there's some significant issues that demand explanation in the ROS, I'll usually give a yes, or probably not even post the review as such. But I do pass along info of a critical nature, of course.
I have a confession...I'm a cell phone game addict.

If you are taking a shower before or after we play you better believe I will be connecting dots, crushing some candy, or finding words.

Texting or calling others during an appointment isn't professional. The question is did you ask her to not text/call others while you were there? If she ignored your request then a "NO" is very understandable. "Yes for certain people" or "Yes with reservations" or even "Yes if she puts down the phone" let's other know it wasn't terrible but you weren't happy.

On very extended dates (think 4+ hours) I will check my phone while we are traveling between locations or while you are asleep. Hobbyists get ignored. I'm checking for reference requests. Just because I'm fortunate enough to be busy doesn't mean some other provider should have to wait for a reference from me.