BP/Eccie

Serenity24's Avatar
I'm confused here!!! Why Downgrade BP when All y'all Ask about is BP Girls!!

Please tell me The Difference?!

Everyday I come on here and See Clients Ask about BP girls instead of Eccie girls?!
I've wondered that exact question many times......

Everyone here is here to get sex. Some want to just screw someone and get a nut, others want a more girlfriend type of experience (hence GFE) or some other particular fetish.

Your last statement was that, "Everyday I come on here and See Clients Ask about BP girls instead of Eccie girls?!" That's absolutely true. It's because we don't have to ask. Providers here have reviews that we can read that are done by other trusted hobbyist. With limited research we can decide whether or not we want to see her. Her services, rates, etc are all in her reviews and or her showcase and many also have links to their websites where we can find more information if needed. The reason we ask about BP girls varies. Mostly we want to find out information to see if it's worth our time going to see her (Does she perform well? Was the neighborhood safe?, How does she really look?, What does she do? Is she well kept?, Does it seem like she's pimped or trafficked? (Edit - PD). Another reason for asking is that there are some girls on BP whose pics are absolutely gorgeous. In that case we want to know if the picture is fake (bait and switch or worse law enforcement) or if it is real, what does she do? If she's real, many hobbyist will tell her about eccie so she can join. Many ladies who are on Eccie started on BP but once they get here they start asking questions and learning from the veteran providers (which is what the smart ones do), they learn they can make more money by being professional. In fact, I asked about one who was gorgeous the other day.

Also, take a look at the photos of the women on BP vs the women here. I think you have to admit that the pictures are classier. Presentation is very important in this business as with any other, Simply bending over, showing your ass, or sticking your tongue out while trying to make a sexy face isn't good presentation. Many times when you visit a BP girl, she's basically made no effort concerning her appearance. This doesn't happen nearly as much with ladies here. Better presentation will always get more and better customers.

Also, there is the professionalism of the providers here, especially the veterans. Since this is their business, the ladies here take pride in their customer service and try and make sure their clients have a good time. Many BP girls have the reputation of simply trying to get you out of the room as fast as possible so they can see their next client. If a provider here does that, It'll end up in her review and a hobbyist will know. There is also the irritating practice of upselling. Nothing is a bigger turnoff then getting to a BP girl and she claims she doesn't do this or that or that will cost more etc blah, blah, blah. Not worth my time.

There are also safety issues. Through this website in the alert forums and Men's room, you can find out if you'll be relatively safe going to see the lady. Most of the community is also concerned about STD's. Could you catch one from a girl here? Sure, but its still a safer bet when you know some information rather than knowing nothing.

Personally, I've VERY recently gone back to just seeing ladies from here instead of going the cheap route on BP. It just hasn't been worth it. Even a good BP experience I had recently turned into a typical BP experience the next time I saw her. A waste of money.

That concludes today's lesson. I hope this helps you understand. :-)
dezperado's Avatar
yup...very well explained, and my sentiments exactly!
It's not all of us by any stretch.

Advertising on BP is a downgrade, and in a huge way, for me. Far to many switch and bait, stolen pics and the like on BP to take any of those ads seriously.

I have noticed that many, if not most, of those who are on both, have bad reviews on Eccie even when they refer to Eccie in their BP ads.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
I know that for many, backpage has a bad reputation. However, I LIKE backpage and I don't consider myself to be the bottom of the barrel or anything.

I feel, from a working girl perspective, it's a numbers game. Advertising in several places, and doing good screening, is what makes our world go around and makes us money.

Of course, I'm speaking from the female perspective, only.

Warmly,
Elisabeth
I am a well established provider here who posts ads on BP. I've met some wonderful gentlemen from BP, and I have been contacted by the male members here through my ads too.
There is a lot of weeding before you find a gem, much like the gems the gents find.
You would be surprised at how many verified providers post ads on BP. I have seen the ads where there is mention of this site and others, personally I think its a bad idea. To each their own.

Advertising on BP is a downgrade, Originally Posted by David-Louisiana
BP means different things depending on areas.
I advertise on BP.
Everyone isnt an Eccie fan and depending on area some would say Eccie is trash.

At the end of the day, depending on where one is looking....
'The buyer buys what he likes' whether its class or trash
I well understand the numbers game. Not all but a lot who are in both have bad reviews. I also know that one must take some reviews with a grain of salt. You'd swear that street walker caliber is runway model turned porn star.
SknyDiva's Avatar
I advertised on Backpage until someone showed me Eccie. I recently put ads up and used it. Drama. Some MITCH decided to take an ad out to say I was a clock watcher, time waster and had a bad attitude. I know it's not true . There are some good providers on backpage. There's also shitty ones.It's a advertising tool. To say a provider has downgraded is harsh. If she conducts herself in a safe business practice BP is just a tool we use to get the word out like ECCIE.
SknyDiva's Avatar
I well understand the numbers game. Not all but a lot who are in both have bad reviews. I also know that one must take some reviews with a grain of salt. You'd swear that street walker caliber is runway model turned porn star. Originally Posted by David-Louisiana
I'm going to pick porn star.
annie@christophers's Avatar
Well 1 of you Einstein jrs..do the math...it's not bp...it's boards..lol..they drag Yale down.. I directly love when birthes love my city...yet don't ask me to lunch...lmaof...I'll remember next time I GOTTA PAY AT A LUNCH.. p.s..I don't enjoy u r city..not really.. coming here..not paying a fucking. Dime....ANZ undercuttinzz...hmph.. lol
Serenity24's Avatar
I really Appreciate All of u guys for Responding and most of you Guys Are Right..when I first Got on BP I saw everyone client until I learn you really can't There's crazy Ppl everywhere So I choose upscale older Gentlemen and I promise I Don't Have Problems I go by how you Talk and What's your hobby's conversation,professional..

I might have tattoos and curse Lol but I'm a Legit Woman With a Great Smile and A personality I Come in Peace

So I really think the BP thing is Overrated but It's life...
SknyDiva's Avatar
Well 1 of you Einstein jrs..do the math...it's not bp...it's boards..lol..they drag Yale down.. I directly love when birthes love my city...yet don't ask me to lunch...lmaof...I'll remember next time I GOTTA PAY AT A LUNCH.. p.s..I don't enjoy u r city..not really.. coming here..not paying a fucking. Dime....ANZ undercuttinzz...hmph.. lol Originally Posted by annie@christophers
When I come back if you would do me the honor I'd love to take your old ass too dinner and a cocktail or two!!
I'm going to pick porn star. Originally Posted by SknyDiva
Wasn't talking about you, due you are a keeper, but I have seen glowing reviews of some providers that are either completely untrue or the reviewer is blind as a bat and has zero clue what all those abbreviations mean. Just sayin...