You Win Ladies! I Give Up..

Be warned ahead of time, this is a rant. I'm feeling pretty goddamned unappreciated right now so I'm venting. Some ladies will read things I'm saying here and know I'm referring to them but I ask you to cut me just a tiny bit of slack. I'm so angry right now I can't trust myself to drive home so I'm getting it out of my system here.

It is absofuckinglutely unbelievable the bullshit I have to wade through to actually see a provider. Simply amazing. In the past month I have set a date with a woman I had seen previously who then just disappears on the day of our appointment never to be heard from again. She's been on the forums and other escort sites but she won't respond to my attempts to reach out to her. Won't even give me the common fucking courtesy of telling me why she stopped talking to me. I could accept any reason. "Sorry, you're too fat ALF". Yeah, ok, fine I'll move on to someone else. But this acting like a fucking child and ignoring my PMs and texts (which I stopped sending weeks ago I'm not a stalker) is straight up disrespectful bullshit.

And then there's every other single date I've set up. Every single fucking one of them delayed for a laundry list of reasons. I'm a reasonable guy, shit happens and I get that shit happens to me too, usually when I try to hobby, but I'm goddamned tired of it. Everything from wrong room numbers to "Oh sorry I had to take 6 fucking hours to wall mount my new TV I just decided to go buy this afternoon. You don't mind if our date is delayed 4 hours right?" And not even 1 minute of extra time for my patience and understanding. Just hustle me out the door..."I'd feel bad about it if I was doing something stupid to delay our date" well, you fucking were doing something stupid weren't you? Every last one of you well reviewed, well respected and unmotherfuckingreliable.

And now tonight, I decided to try a San Antonio lady. Scheduled in advance, references checked, good to go. Canceled Saturday. Drive 2 hours to San Antonio tonight communicating the whole time and it's all good..then she's just gone. No texts, no emails, no answer on the phone. I truly hope she's ok I don't wish her or anyone ill will but MOTHERFUCKER! AGAIN!?

What am I doing wrong? Is my money not green enough? Are my kisses not loving enough? What The Fuck...Ya'll need to work on TCB.

That is all, I'm going home. Maybe next weekend I can get laid...

Are they all young? If so there you go.

That's why I do outcall. If they flake I figure I just made $300 that I'd written off. Next I pour a glass of red and watch a good movie without skipping a beat.

Are they all young? If so there you go.

That's why I do outcall. If they flake I figure I just made $300 that I'd written off. Next I pour a glass of red and watch a good movie without skipping a beat. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

No they aren't. The 2 magically disappearing ladies are 40 and 35 respectively.

And good for you..

Sorry youre having to deal with.such awful tcb..

That's awful to hear. Sorry for your troubles scheduling! I am sure there are a plethora of different honest difficulties and personal circumstances involved, and others just straight up rude and having bad TCB. Sometimes we all need leniency, I have had bad TCB a few times due to unavoidable last minute circumstances (shattered phone screen at last minute, flat tire, even the ER) and a couple of times when I was just honestly burnt out and realized how bad my head space was before the appointment and abruptly begged for a further date. I have done my best since to make ammends with any failed TCB instances and have learned my trigger points and have made it a solid point to have painless, convenient scheduling and follow-up. Chalk up the straight up rudeness to personal inadequacies, lack of experience, lack of a stable mindset... Who KNOWS what they may be going through? Regardless we should all strive for good customer service and I wish you well in your future endeavors!

The 2 magically disappearing ladies are 40 and 35 respectively. Originally Posted by AlienLifeForm

Hmm is there a common denominator with these ladies or is it just shit luck?

Hey bro, relax. It'll be ok. Check out some porn, have a few beers and get after it. There's plenty of stuff out there. Chalk it up to a bad month. Hit the weights, do something fun and save your money. Before you know it you'll be brewing with confidence and possibly hitting stuff for free. Be safe. You'll be ok!

A good rant is great, but if you don't name handles nothing will ever change.

A good rant is great, but if you don't name handles nothing will ever change. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

He has already named one of them.

Unfortunately some providers just have shitty TCB.

Call them out and make them accountable. I had shitty TCB before I left Austin. I made that shit up for free to several of the guys.... trying to keep my karma clean.

Imagine "my" frustration?

Yeah the ladies think not responding you will just go away, not knowing that it just pisses you off worse than any other situation could possibly do. Just say no! You chose an adult profession act like one.

A good rant is great, but if you don't name handles nothing will ever change. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

I can see your point but usually naming names only results in a bitch fest but here ya go.

Sk8terPrincezz delayed our date 4 hours to wall mount her new tv. Should've just canceled or, better yet, done the tv another day.

Nikki Duran stopped responding to my communications the day of our scheduled date. Still don't know why but she's been on ECCIE so I know she read my PMs but refuses to communicate with me. I thought our first date went very well even with the almost 2 hour delay due to babysitter issues. This one especially grates on me as I gave her a Victoria's Secret gift card to buy lingerie with and wear on our second date. Now I'll never get to see what she bought.

The lady from last night contacted me this morning and apologized. Apparently she ran a light and had an unpaid ticket and so spent the night in lockup. We'll reschedule when I have hobbying funds again and start fresh. Hopefully things will go better.

In the end my night wasn't a total debacle. I reached out to Iceangel who was busy but put me in contact with her sister Giana and we had a fine time.

Iceangel and Giana are both amazing ladies. Glad that you finally had some fun.