It's ok to freaking harras a provider by emailing her, texting her, messaging her on her website, and messaging her on ECCIE over and over and over every single day. And usually if someone does not respond it is because they are busy. I am very good with getting back to e-mails. I do have job. I do go to school. I do go to summer school. I am very busy and I RESPECT that other people are busy to. If you cannot respect that, and I tell you that I will get back to you as soon as you can and then you continue to keep messaging me from every possible medium, then I have no choice but to ignore you. I feel like I am being harassed and now I ma being slandered over something that yes, was partially my fault, but I would A. expect gentlemen to not haggle me about my rates as what initially occurred B. tell me something important that I would need to know not at the last minute and C. be able to count correctly. I shouldn't have to worry about getting ripped off. This is why I say that I only want to see true gentlemen. I already was nice enough to give in to lowering me rates for a gent and that made me feel very bad on top of being harassed for a few weeks. It does not feel very good for that to happen when I was only trying to be nice and not be rude or unprofessional. I just did not know how to handle the situation, out of FEAR as you can see now my name is getting bashed. I did not want to tell this gent to stop e-mailing me out of fear that he would post something on ECCIE.
Honestly I am very sick of the whole ECCIE game going on . I do not think it is fair that I feel manipulated by what could be posted about me if I don't do this or that. So there is the whole story. I am not unprofessional, I respond to my messages in a timely manner as I work 8 hours per day 5 days a week and I have 6-8 hours of homework per day. I do my best to accommodate clients to the best of my abilities and it just makes it very difficult when I am getting messaged from all over by 1 person , it makes me go crazy. If I do not respond it's because I am busy and I get to my messages as soon as possible. Like I said, I have never been in this situation before and I ma a nice person and I did not know what to do or say about being shorted & also about what happened during the session so I just thought best to cut all ties.
NO ONE ELSE has emailed me as much as this person so please understand. If you're not the kind of guy who is going to email and text a provider every single day and then message her on her website and eccie every couple of days just because she does not respond, then you should have no problems. I mean , providers have lives to and it's not fair that I should be expected to text someone all day long or message someone every single day . If a client does not respond, I wait at least 1 week or more before checking in again I don't message the guy everyday and harass him to book with me so why should I have to deal with that????
I feel I was inbetween a rock and a hard place, I did try to get advice from other more experienced providers about what to do but I did not really get an answer. This does not mean I just ignore people and I have not been shorted any other time by anyone else. Mind you, everyone else I have seen was more "professional" than this person, if that makes sense, so I did not have to worry. I don't want to judge people based on their job or looks and determine if I should have to not trust this person. and if that's the case , then I don't want to meet with that kind of person that I cannot trust anyways.
Anyways, being 19 I am still learning a lot from this business and I have learned from this lesson. Still, please don't harass >.< I literally had to ask my friend for help because I didn't know how to make it stop!