I think there lots of different reasons why some women post on here and some don't. Some women are just naturally more talkative and more prone to using this as a means to just engage socially. Same goes for the men.
I, myself, never use co-ed tactically, as I think my posts prove
. I read for the same reasons guys do, for entertainment, and if I see something I want to comment on, I do. If I don't, I don't comment.
I don't think anyone really "qualifies" in co-ed, although it is certainly possible to "disqualify" yourself in co-ed. I think most men read reviews, profiles and look at pics in order to decide whom to see. I think Co-ed is largely of value to those who enjoy, to steal a word from Ms. V's most used vocabulary, conviviality. This can be a lonely endeavor with not a whole lot of people knowing about a significant portion of your life. It's nice to be able to joke and share in an open forum.
But for those who do post threADs or whatever to generate attention, so what of it? I don't have a problem with that either. Make it fun and entertaining and have at it. Having a post history can be valuable in getting appointments for the guys as well.
What I don't see is what is the point of continually taking to task the women who DO choose to post unless you really have some great vision about what exactly co-ed should be and when, how and if at all women should be allowed to post.