BBBJ and Kissing question?

Ranchhand's Avatar
I don't post much and I never start a thread, but I have a question? I read a lot on eccie, cause reading is about all I can do at my age. I have read a lot of reviews where a lady will give a guy a bbbj, but she doesn't allow kissing. This sort of confuses me. Why would a lady blow you and cim, but she wont kiss you? Just something that caught my eye and I was wondering about. Just some thoughts from a old guy.
Honestly dude its hard to even find a girl who's willing to do bbbj for a reasonable price. I guess it has to do with the encounter no being personal or something like that. Also you never know there are some nasty guys out there who don't brush their teeth every day.
Buckskin's Avatar
I'm always puzzled over cbj but allows DATY.
TemptationTammie's Avatar
I agree with dude, that oral hygiene can be one reason for not wanting to kiss.
Some ladies also may find it too personal. Or if she is high volume or books things too close together, maybe she just had another guy cim and doesn't want to kiss because of that. So many different things can keep a lady from kissing.
Ranchhand's Avatar
Part 2 of my question. If a lady advertises as GFE, then she shouldn't she kiss you?. Through out my life I have had many girlfriends, and I have never had one that refused to kiss me.
TemptationTammie's Avatar
I personally love to kiss and been told that I'm good at it. If she advertises GFE, then she should be willing to kiss unless she's sick, but she also shouldn't be taking appts if she is sick.
sean rider's Avatar
GFE is an almost useless term because it has no standard definition. IMHO what it should include is LFK or DFK as well as BBBJ. But some girls will deny it includes either.

For some girls a BBBJ is a rather anonymous sex act, but kissing is much more personal. There may be some biological justification or this as mucous membranes are going to constantly expose a chemical mix as individual as a fingerprint, and is thus literally more personal.