I agree with you April. I can't tell if it's just me or not, but I find the "looking for a bng now" threads to be... tacky.
I have reached out a time or two if my schedule suddenly opens up and asked a lady if she's available, but that's not the norm for me. Personally, I enjoy setting something up, having a flirty pm or three in between to kind of set the mood for the scheduled date, etc. When I read a "I'd like a bj" REQ/ISO, my first thought is "Not cool bro. Maybe plan something instead? It's not like she's just hoping to rush over and service you."
But, those ISO's must work out for both parties because they seem to be posted more and more frequently.
Maybe they should add a new "Instaslam" or "Horny AF" sub-forum