I'm sorry to do this but...

I need information and to put some feelers out here.

Towards the end of the summer I want to spend an evening in the city. Ideally, I would check-in my accommodations, meet a local I've been corresponding with for several weeks so we know and are comfortable with each other, and let him take me on a tour of the city. He would show me the sights, take me to a fabulous restaurant, go listen to jazz, and part ways after brunch.

Is this city very GFE oriented? Or would I better off seeing the city on my own and just taking one regular appointment at night and one in the morning? Where should I stay if I decide to just take regular appointments?

Is there a better option of accommodations if I find a a man who loves to be BFE (Boyfriend Experience) and wants to spend my entire time in your city together?

You are welcome to reply to this thread but please PM specific locations for discretion. Thanks for reading and I hope you all have a lovely day.

Hi Angel, I think you're better off with a REAL local showing you around. New Orleans is incredible with very distinct areas (French Quarter, Uptown, Mid City, Lakeview, etc.). There are so many great restaurants. Having someone with connections to get reservations would be a plus. Like Commander's Palace for dinner and Mr. B's for brunch the following day. You'll want to share these experiences with a southern gentleman.

K

Commanders Palace is one of the most overrated places that I've ever been. Mr B's is ok if that's your thing. To me if you want to see NO forget all of that jazz and go casual. I' just enjoy the simple things in life though. I like to go to some dive bars, drink good, meet interesting folk, and somehow I end up on Frenchman listening to local live bands, drinking cheap beer, eating appetizers, and having a blast. Normally I end up eating off the taco truck and sitting on my balcony with a night cap listening to the band. That's New Orleans to me, but I don't have the funds some of these fancy people have

I need information and to put some feelers out here.

Towards the end of the summer I want to spend an evening in the city. Ideally, I would check-in my accommodations, meet a local I've been corresponding with for several weeks so we know and are comfortable with each other, and let him take me on a tour of the city. He would show me the sights, take me to a fabulous restaurant, go listen to jazz, and part ways after brunch.

Is this city very GFE oriented? Or would I better off seeing the city on my own and just taking one regular appointment at night and one in the morning? Where should I stay if I decide to just take regular appointments?

Is there a better option of accommodations if I find a a man who loves to be BFE (Boyfriend Experience) and wants to spend my entire time in your city together?

You are welcome to reply to this thread but please PM specific locations for discretion. Thanks for reading and I hope you all have a lovely day. Originally Posted by SA Angel

"Toward the end of summer" Exactly when do you mean? The rest of the country defines that as "last week of August through week after Labor Day". In San Antonio & New Orleans, if you go strictly by weather, you mean the first week of October. Usually. End of August/early September isn't a bad time to visit, b/c there are almost no conventions or events then--it's usually just too hot & miserable here, although there IS Decadence during Labor Day.

Is the city GFE oriented? I have no earthly idea, since what you mean by that probably is defined differently than the other 299,999,999 people in the country. If you're asking if there are guys on here who enjoy women who advertise a real GFE experience & are some of them interested in Asian women especially & would want to see you, the answer is almost certainly 'yes'. If you mean 'are overnights common' I don't know. I do know I haven't read a ton of overnight reviews here & I normally cannot afford them, so an overnight for me is w/someone I've seen many times & w/whom I have something between 'an understanding' & 'a relationship'. But that's just me.

The "where should I stay" question comes up over & over. I'll tell you the same thing I tell everyone else:

1. ask girls who come here a lot, esp. Dallas Rain & Seeking ~P, as they will probably know of things important for a visiting girl that a guy won't know or notice;

2. be prepared for bitching from someone on here about it being inconvenient wherever you decide;

3. if you want tourists who can walk to you, Le Quartier or CBD is fine, but if you want locals who can park then Metairie is probably better;

4. under no circumstances should a girl who's never been here before & is by herself stay in New Orleans East, on the Westbank, or in Mid-city w/o an explicit recommendation from other girls who vouch for a place & an area as safe (large parts of mid-city are quite nice, but the only hotels are on Tulane Ave., which is not; there are perfectly OK parts of the Westbank but you won't know that until you've been here a few times or another girl tells you).

You probably could change your mind about where to stay if you didn't have to worry about taking an appointment there, which is I guess the point of the BFE question. Again, the girls are best positioned to answer that.

There are countless threads, mostly in this forum, on this very topic. Although not the same, a similar "what should I do w/my time in NOLA" thread is very recent & below, to give you some ideas about where you might like to go or things you might like to do, either by yourself or w/a friend:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1407741

Enjoy & have fun here.

Weeks ago, I posed my questions in the ladies area and received crickets in response so that's why I posted in Co-ed and opened with an apology. I get it; I'm an unknown provider and they are all busy so this thread was born. ThreADs and ads in general are not normally my style honestly.

What I meant by GFE oriented I mean are the gentlemen in your city more concerned with "menu" items or conversation and connection? Do men come armed with a mental checklist of activities they want or do they let the session progress naturally and part ways with lady knowing they have discovered a new friend? Sure, I have a pretty open menu and don't need to fake my enjoyment as I go through someone's list....but you only need one guess to figure out where my preferences lie.

I grew up on in the mid-Atlantic region so for me August the last week of August is the end of the summer. Specifically, I will be there the August 27th but there is some limited flexibility on the date depending on the gentleman's schedule.

I think that most gentlemen that are considering an overnight appointment are looking for more than just a menu checklist.

As far as getting a true taste of New Orleans, I would highly recommend that you see the city on the arm of a local gentleman. You will be safer and much more likely to expreience a few of the city's hidden gems, both restaurants and neighborhoods.

Weeks ago, I posed my questions in the ladies area and received crickets in response so that's why I posted in Co-ed and opened with an apology.

ThreADs and ads in general are not normally my style honestly.

for me August the last week of August is the end of the summer. Specifically, I will be there the August 27th Originally Posted by SA Angel

Well I don't really consider this a threAD, esp. if you asked before & got no response. Sent you a PM & hope it answers some of your questions/has suggestions for local women to approach directly. Have a good visit--it's a great city, even during the worst days of summer.

I need information and to put some feelers out here.

Towards the end of the summer I want to spend an evening in the city. Ideally, I would check-in my accommodations, meet a local I've been corresponding with for several weeks so we know and are comfortable with each other, and let him take me on a tour of the city. He would show me the sights, take me to a fabulous restaurant, go listen to jazz, and part ways after brunch. Originally Posted by SA Angel

So your seeking a client who will book and overnight or multihour....... who will talk and converse with you for a few weeks prior to your evening arrival one night to establsh comfortability.....(like a dating site primarly a guy geting to know you) and he would take you on an all expense paid tour of the city that same night you arrive all on his dime, take you out for food on his dime, and then hang out with you until well past checkout noon wth the little time and energy you guy might have left. Doesn't leave many hours for the fun. Where's the incentive? What's the fee? Let's not act as if money is no object and its not important.

If your preferring an overnight or weekend just say that. I do admit. How a lady interacts with me while screening and talking to me on the phone might determine a lot of the type of overnight I book. If she isn't too much of the personable or talkative type and its a first time overnight, or I'm just not feelng like going out,..... Ill order room service and keeps it homely. I also like ladies who are humble....and play it by ear. I don't like booking things with percieved expectations and rules. If a lady told me she needed uninterrupted preset hours for sleep, a night out on the town for dinner, etc. I will probably not see her...or just book her at later hours when dinner won't be her princple concern.

Don't get me wrong I lke dinner dates and going out. But not all ladies make them fun, and just because I book one lady and do that doesn't mean I would do that with all. I usually do outcall anyway and have what ladies need in the room. Or order room delivery or service. On the occasions where I went out to eat with a lady........it was always because it wasn't a percieved thing or a rule. Some wouldn't even consider taking the time out we used to eat from my booked time. I consider going out a gratuity and priviledge. Besides.....id rather go out to eat after having a few hours of sex. I bet that will make the conversation at the dinner table more satisfying, more relaxed, and interesting. Because the common goal is achieved. Surprise and satisfy me sexually and the world is your oyster........

But too many ladies prefer to eat and meet before, some making it a requirement. That's fine...but realize I want you at your strongest state of availability when its time for action. I know I get lethargic and lazy after drinking and eating. So me I just skip it. I book either a late night booking 9pm or later......or if they really want a dinner date......and more real interaction Ill book as early as checkin 4pm with a checkout time and appointment end time of noon. Like an extended overnight or clock free date. Which will leave plenty of time for eating, and amle amount of time for sexing......whch s the focal point for me.

More times often than not, ladies won't be interested in that type of meet......because their concern first and foremost is the time they are available to you and what business they are missing by seeing you for a particular block of time....and what extra work she wll have to endure if any. So they may say they prefer a particular kind of date........but when given the oppurtunity for it with more humble assurances they consider that not a deal.

Is there a better option of accommodations if I find a a man who loves to be BFE (Boyfriend Experience) and wants to spend my entire time in your city together? Originally Posted by SA Angel

Probably so, but if I personally took that much time to get to know you prior to a meet the accommodations would be in a hotel or at my home. There will be of course be a price to pay for guys requesting to spend your entire time in the city with them I'm assuming.

Like truth be told Id love to book an overnight that extended into a weekend with a lady....especally on first time meets. But what determines that decision for me greatly is her talents in the bedroom and her personabilty. The idea of the type of date and meet you want sounds fun......but the first night Id be seeking to go in beast mode behind closed doors on an overnight. After appprecation for a night of awe nspiring sex, Id use the second day for touring sight seeing and stuff like that, and maybe getting back to the action later that night until the next morning lol. If she treats me good for an entire night.....I'm sure Ill be more generous and interested in doing more outside activties the second day.

But I don't want the presumption I have to do it......I should want to do it at that point. And defntely a price incentive should be attached if its a requirement.

What I meant by GFE oriented I mean are the gentlemen in your city more concerned with "menu" items or conversation and connection? Do men come armed with a mental checklist of activities they want or do they let the session progress naturally and part ways with lady knowing they have discovered a new friend? Sure, I have a pretty open menu and don't need to fake my enjoyment as I go through someone's list....but you only need one guess to figure out where my preferences lie. Originally Posted by SA Angel

So your preferences lie moreso on being less submissive and more dominant in regards to your bookings. You don't lke being told what to do......but you simply tolerate it. You don't want to be told and issued commands and requests for a particular perferred service at the time. You want to control the venue, the sexual pace, speed, time, and feel of the meet. That is perfectly fine if that's the assumption going into a meet. But if a guy books and hour how much time for conversaton and connection do you need. Is that subtracted from his booked time....or a free service offered by you clock free for you own comfortablity?

I think that most gentlemen that are considering an overnight appointment are looking for more than just a menu checklist. Originally Posted by Goodtime4us2

Definitely true. But let's not just assume if a guy is inquring about his perferred services that he will be less of a gentleman, or not be the BFE type. In order to know and respect preferences and boundaries you have to know them. So Ill definitely ask. Believe me in regards to her rates or any ladies rates.....they will clarify and make sure you very aware of them securely. Why then after screening should it be looked down upon if a client confirms what he likes. Its a small gateway to something more.


SA angel.......

If your free on a weekend I'm off that I can request Id see you. Even if its not in this particular city. But its a considerably large time from now, and also Id prefer outcall. The time frame your also planning is also the start of hurricane season. A factor to consider.

The time frame your also planning is also the start of hurricane season. A factor to consider. Originally Posted by gimme_that

I'd forgotten that: 10th anniversary of Katrina here that week. If you haven't booked a room, do it now. NOLA is NOT a city to try to find a room last minute, as too many visiting girls have discovered.

I'd forgotten that: 10th anniversary of Katrina here that week. If you haven't booked a room, do it now. NOLA is NOT a city to try to find a room last minute, as too many visiting girls have discovered. Originally Posted by Old Horn Dog

Have to disagree with ODH on this. August & September are the slowest time of year for tourism and many hotels are underbooked and cheap that time of year. I don't think many tourists will be in town solely because it's the 10th anniversary of Katrina. A few reporters/journalists, yes, but probably not enough to make a difference.

And yes, that is the height of hurricane season, so check the cancellation policy of the hotel when you book the room, in case there's a storm brewing in the Gulf of Mexico.

I think most seasoned hobbyists recognize, and avoid, threADs. On the other hand, when we detect sincerity, many of us are proud of our city and are happy to point out it's many attributes to visitors.