Although advertising in Another Realm isn't allowed, if you participate in topics (or better yet, start a few!) then the gentlemen reading, and noticing your participation, will be helpful in the learning process.
Some of the best "lessons" that I've learned while in the alternative world has been from my client base. Seriously.
And just a little private note, there are some very experienced, and VERY sexy (and alternative/fetishy) beasts in Houston.
Kindof wish that I was there this weekend.
Again, good luck.
Elisabeth