Question was how long is too long to wait? Guess the answer to that depends on how bad you NEED to see her. Honestly when I get a text that a provider is running late. I feel like I wasn't important enough for her to be on time. That may not be her fault being that things do happen but in my case I feel like there was a bigger fish involved and that's a turn off for me. I have a hard enough time with real life women and relationships and all the bullshit that comes along with that. I damn sure don't need to be rejected or dicked around in something I'm paying for. Originally Posted by drinkindreaminexactly!