How Long ?

How long would you give a provider to get ready for a session. Where why I am asking had a 5 30pm appointment set up text her about 15 after 5 pm said she was running late would 6 30 be ok text back yes. So now I have to kill a hour after driving a 100 miles to Shreveport 6 30 pm get another text could we make it 7 30 pm I need to go eat. I text back I am going back to Texas. Need some feed back on this from both sides provider & clients. How long would you wait ?
DallasRain's Avatar
MOST reputable providers should be time efficient! Time management is an importatnt part of a successful & fun session.
  • jwood
  • 06-14-2015, 09:56 PM
That's too long but I would have confirmed before I left.
Needed to go buy some stuff at bass pro shop anyways there biting at the power plant & some BBQ at one of my favorite place. It is the curse of Staff edit: Removed ref to forbidden topic.
drinkindreamin's Avatar
I'm just a rookie but I've had this happen,where we had a time on a Fri or Sat night. When it got to be that time. I Got a text that she was running late or something run over. She was tired or started her period....Some bullshit and Im a fairly understanding guy but don't lie to me. Honestly I think she over booked or caught a bigger fish. Therefore she cancelled or rescheduled with me. This bullshit ain't rocket science. I just wished we could be honest with one another. Don't waste my time and I wont waste yours.
Her TCB skills are horrible
BigAceVegas's Avatar
Needed to go buy some stuff at bass pro shop anyways there biting at the power plant & some BBQ at one of my favorite place. It is the curse of Staff edit: Removed ref of forbidden topic. Originally Posted by lil nicky
Is specialk out of retirement?
Nope but it does sound like her crap
MuffinMan's Avatar
specialk....is this who y'all are talking about? http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=95595

Spell it with all lowercase and it's a provider. Throw in some uppercase letters and it becomes a forbidden topic. Just FYI.
MM
Does not sound like special K. She is always super on top of things when I talk with her.
Top notch lady and a good friend.
I believe lil nicky is make a reference to the often late but always loved specailk behaviour to the lady he is trying to see and not specailk herself.

This has always been a problem in the hobby, cancellations and ncns by hobbyist and providers alike. Communication and respect goes a long way on both side of the fence.

How long would I wait? It depends. If I know the habits of the lady (thanks to those who put them in the reviews) and I really want to see her I'll chill with a cold beverage until I get the "I'm ready" text or until my time has run out.
Thank you HK for the correct answer
Most are on time if they are mature and take care of business. I have gotten to the point if they are 10 mins late, I leave. Sure they bitch and moan but it is a business and I am a business man.
I always book at least a few hours ahead of time so I see no reason not to be ready.
It is my money and if they don't want it, there is always a better one down the road.
Still lots around to take up the slack.
drinkindreamin's Avatar
Question was how long is too long to wait? Guess the answer to that depends on how bad you NEED to see her. Honestly when I get a text that a provider is running late. I feel like I wasn't important enough for her to be on time. That may not be her fault being that things do happen but in my case I feel like there was a bigger fish involved and that's a turn off for me. I have a hard enough time with real life women and relationships and all the bullshit that comes along with that. I damn sure don't need to be rejected or dicked around in something I'm paying for.
Question was how long is too long to wait? Guess the answer to that depends on how bad you NEED to see her. Honestly when I get a text that a provider is running late. I feel like I wasn't important enough for her to be on time. That may not be her fault being that things do happen but in my case I feel like there was a bigger fish involved and that's a turn off for me. I have a hard enough time with real life women and relationships and all the bullshit that comes along with that. I damn sure don't need to be rejected or dicked around in something I'm paying for. Originally Posted by drinkindreamin
exactly!