Hygiene

The topic of hygiene crossed my mind several times recently. After reading other hobbyist reviews and speaking with providers about hygiene I decided to get you all's perspective. First let me start by saying I have the up most respect for providers. I mean you all have seen, smelled and come across it all. How you keep your stomach contents after seeing or smelling some of the things you have is beyond me. And, before anyone assumes I'm talking about myself, let me say no I am not. I've always made it a point to have impeccable hygiene. I have a few questions for the providers.
How do you handle a situation where your client has hygiene issues?
Do you believe that your "no" or "maybe" recommendations are tied to your inability to look past bad hygiene?
What do you do when a hobbyist doesn't get the hint that his hygiene is foul and refuses a shower?

Man, I have no idea how a guy can show up with sweaty balls and think the provider is going to be "into it". I ALWAYS bring soap, towels, and deodorant to their incall and shower first. Mainly for their benefit, but for my benefit as well. I'd feel self-conscious and like a dirtbag if I hit the sack with them without showering first. Even if I just showered before going there, I shower again over there. I could have gotten a little sweaty down there on the drive over. It's just courtesy.

Only one time did I go down on a provider from ECCIE and there was a "natural" smell. The ladies on here, in my experience, have impeccable hygiene.

(In her defense, she wasn't GFE, but I didn't know that. I went down on her and the look on her face was priceless! Horrified that I would do that! She was strictly CBJ, no kissing and stuff. I should have asked first I guess.)

I always shower and use a half a can of axe body spray. If I cannot shower then I always ask to use the providers shower before I even show up. A regular I seen for years she always wanted me to shower with me. Some of the stories ive heard is crazy.

See my FRESHLY Showered thread.

I straight up tell them to go wash there ass. Should I be tactful NO!

T

I always shower and use a half a can of axe body spray. If I cannot shower then I always ask to use the providers shower before I even show up. A regular I seen for years she always wanted me to shower with me. Some of the stories ive heard is crazy. Originally Posted by justhaveinfun

I don't use too much of that axe body spray prior to the BCD activites. A lot of ladies really secretely hate the strong mush smell of that stuff. And if you like her kissing your neck....or other places..the taste of it isn't too good. Id say use axe before u leave home for an ncall, then wash it off in shower before the activities.

Since I do outcall perferably by the time the lady has arrived I've already taken about three showers. One before I leave my house, one after I check into the hotel, and another an hour before she arriives.

Like when a lady is freshly showered......but....if a lady just left her house and took a shower.......I'm really not expecting her to shower again before BCD activities when she arrives. Yes a fresh clean smell is nice.......but I also like a womans natural scent. Its not lke her vaJJ has gone from sugar to shit during the car ride to my outcall.

quote--Man, I have no idea how a guy can show up with sweaty balls and think the provider is going to be "into it".

amen...I luv balls so please wash them and I will "go to town on them"!!! LOL

I like to give my guys a bubblebath before we start a session...especially if we are doing fetish play!

cleanliness is a priority to a good fun romp in my hot pink sheets!

T

I don't use too much of that axe body spray prior to the BCD activites. A lot of ladies really secretely hate the strong mush smell of that stuff. And if you like her kissing your neck....or other places..the taste of it isn't too good. Id say use axe before u leave home for an ncall, then wash it off in shower before the activities.

Since I do outcall perferably by the time the lady has arrived I've already taken about three showers. One before I leave my house, one after I check into the hotel, and another an hour before she arriives.

Like when a lady is freshly showered......but....if a lady just left her house and took a shower.......I'm really not expecting her to shower again before BCD activities when she arrives. Yes a fresh clean smell is nice.......but I also like a womans natural scent. Its not lke her vaJJ has gone from sugar to shit during the car ride to my outcall. Originally Posted by gimme_that

I agree with all of the above. A lot of people have scent allergies and too much cologne or body spray will make them physically sick. A little goes a long way. I also don't mind a little natural musk from a lady- the pheromones work for me!

Yes Men and Ladies need to be clean at all times, if for no other reason that it is just plain nasty to have B.O. !! Wash ya azz and guys please tidy up your package a little. Trim or shave the hair on your big Johnson..
M.M.

Ditto on all of the above. I tend to strongly believe that a great session will be had if you are clean and well groomed from breath to butt. Ladies, what about beards/goatees? I have always had a goatee and have recently been growing a beard.

My FRESHLY Showered thread .... http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...eshly+showered

I would rather have no scent at all than something deemed offensive. I don't wear cologne, or lipstick, unless the gentleman doesn't mind.
Some ladies do have a sweet, slightly musky scent. There are some tiny white flowers that have a similar fragrance, their scent has an affect on me. Scent can bring back a memory faster than other things, and they remind me of...... well, never mind!
I like taking a shower with a man, I can clean every part of his body. Its amazing what some soap and a firm "hand shake" can do to get things warmed up.

you would think there would come a time in a man's life that he wouldn't have to be told to bathe, but i guess not.. haha

I straight up tell them to go wash there ass. Should I be tactful NO! Originally Posted by SknyDiva

Marsh..I luv beards & goatees!!