Outcall to a married man while the wife is away

I have a request to visit a client while his wife is away at his home. It will be a first for me since I have always worried about the wife coming home early and my life would be in danger.

Any advice or stories? I need to make a decision and just not sure I should do it.
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
Even if she didn't come home you'd probably be wound up tight the whole time and it would be an ordeal for you. Plus, the mutt is, by definition, a dumbass with weak character...you really want to deal with that?
  • cr76
  • 07-09-2015, 12:36 PM
I never understood that- you want cheat, ok, but not in the same bed I share with your wife .
I agree but I did not want to seem judgemental.
Too many things can go wrong... From neighbors to Nanny cameras, to a surprising wife... Listen to your spidey senses.
  • cr76
  • 07-09-2015, 12:45 PM
Just let him know thy you feel more comfortable meeting at a mutually agree upon location.
glade55's Avatar
i say do it !
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
I agree but I did not want to seem judgemental. Originally Posted by ScarlettKnight
Since when did good judgment become a social liability?

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/judgment
I have a request to visit a client while his wife is away... Originally Posted by ScarlettKnight
Is she out of town? Did she drive? Did she fly?

Eh, pretty irrelevant actually, as she could have HER spidey senses go off & come home just in time to bust him....

If he is too cheap to get a SAFE location...

It is NOT worth it.
Don't do it. I'm sure he thinks it's more exciting that way but it's a bad idea.
Yeh I am going to pass. He just emailed me instructions on where to park and enter the home etc. At this point it isnt the wife I am worried about. And its super late at night. Not worth it to me, Ill go fold shirts at a department store before I end up a statistic.

Oddly enough I feel safer at hotel incall location, at least there would be witnesses lol
Oralist's Avatar
I have done it and it went fine. At the time, LE was raiding all the Notels in the area and it seemed safer for both of us. If you are uncomfortable, then meet somewhere else.
If that little voice is telling you it doesn't feel right ... then it's not right. Get a hotel. If he can't deal with that, he's not worth it.
Russ38's Avatar
Not worth it to me, Ill go fold shirts at a department store before I end up a statistic. Originally Posted by ScarlettKnight
C'mon SK, what's the worse that could happen?.....





But seriously, I know some guys are cool with it and that's their choice but for myself, even being single now and no SO...I've still never done an outcall to my house....
LMAO Russ! That is so hilariously freaky scary!!