References

Every time I'm asked to provide references, I do, then I guess they never respond back. Looking for a girl that's a good time AND that will be a reliable reference lol

most girls have very little incentive to participate in the verification of references.

I'm lucky to have 3-4 that are willing to be a reference for me. All of them I've contacted prior to using them as a reference to get their ok, and they're totally fine with it. Have you contacted the providers that you're using as references prior to trying to use them as a reference to get their ok? Also, once they've given you the ok to use them, give them a heads up when you do use them so they know they may be contacted shortly from another provider to verify. Just a couple of suggestions.

If you are looking for recommendations of specific ladies in the Wtx region ho are good with references I would say Brielovesyou would be a good bet.

I am sure others will come to mind.

Or was this just a rant?

This is gonna segue into P411.

I'm in Amarillo, but it seems the only time I ever get asked for references is by traveling providers, who nearly always have P411, and I get checked out through P411. Of course I travel and play often enough, that I usually have some recent OK's, although I must say they're getting a little stale now.

I need to see a P411 chick and get a fresh OK put on there. Tail wagging the dog, see, kinda like why you need to see Brielovesyou. ThatGirlBailey always used to be reliable for a solid reference. I guess Brie has taken up that role.

Wallance, while MAYBE a suggestive provider with a good reference, Angelo is a good ways from Amarillo

That's a double edged sword. I've asked for references from a lot of girls and all I get is 'he's ok'. Alright? Did you even bother to look or just give me an answer to get me to go away? Now, I have had some give me valuable details in their responses but far more don't and it irks me.
If you were in Lubbock I'd hook you up, bro.

I am reference friendly

I am reference friendly Originally Posted by Nikki_Sweets

you're also in the top 1% when it comes to having your shit together. some of these girls don't remember who they saw yesterday… much less a month ago....or more.

While I have been asked for references, I don't think providers have actually checked them. It seems what they do is look at my reviews to see if I have actually seen that provider. One provider demanded I give her a work number. I was fairly new then and gave it to her with specific times to call. The next day she approved me after talking to my work. Only problem is, I was the only one at work at those times and she never called.
Now if they want a couple of references I am ok with it, but when they want work number, real names, two phone #s and the last three years tax returns I just go on to the next provider.