This is not something I'd usually do

But...I don't know what else to do. I spent most of what I had on a city with no business then had a car problem that cost me 500 bucks. I don't know what to do or what I did wrong

this city isn't very internet friendly, even google maps has issues here. i'm not sure how the scene works here but it isn't with eccie like most places. i assume it is more of an old fashion hit the strip club or cruz the streets for hook ups.

Its a backpage city more than anything.

Well after multiple cancelations and tons of flakey people. I'm out. Good Luck We Don't Act Like This In Texas! Peace!!

Its a backpage city more than anything. Originally Posted by Kcskinsfan

BP isn't responsible for you guys cancelling on her. Just saying.

It sucks that you had people cancel on you. I know, cause I have had the same. A provider set up a time, nothing. Or reschedule, and same. Maybe I just give off a bad vibe or something, but I can't count how many times I have been left hanging.

Sorry to hear this once again. I hate to break it to you guys but in my experience , I encounter the most flakes and/or cancellations from here not BP, P411, my website, etc. You may not personally be one of the gents that do but there are quite a few hobbyists here that express interest than flake out and don't follow through or worse yet set actual appointments and then cancel them. More so than not , believe it or not. I don't know any other providers experience with this board but I have seen a few posts from visitors expressing the same experience as mine. I would estimate that the probability of follow through here is less than 25% while on the other venues it's probably reversed with at least 75% follow through. It's extremely baffling as this venue had such seasoned veteran hobbyists, you wouldn't expect it to be so. I have also seen posts in other venues about the cancellation rate here in NM being very high. It's too bad that those doing this are causing everyone else such a bad reputation. And while I feel badly for anyone who would get stood up, there is a huge difference between you guys getting stood up and the ladies getting stood up. Most ladies rely on their schedules to earn a living to pay their bills, expenses when traveling, etc. This is our job for a lot of us and cancellations/ flakes just don't pay the bills. Often times there is no or such little notice to make adjustments and schedule elsewhere. Can you imagine expecting to get paid and then not getting paid? I just wish everybody would be more courteous of other people's valuable time,
both hobbyists and providers. I personally don't like to waste others time as I get severely irritated at times when
my time is wasted. If this trend continues there will be less and less quality providers attracted to coming here and is likely hobbyists will find themselves experiencing more stand ups as the quality goes down and once reliable providers will end up double booking to ensure that their earnings stay on track. It's not just bad for the ladies but it's bad for the fellas as well.

I understand, and appreciate your frustration, but wasting someone's time is wasting someone's time. I do not see much difference in who cancells the appointment, unless it is a legitimate reason and compensation is offered for the inconvenience. IMHO.

You might have done nothing wrong Bridgette. Some times it's just bad timing and sometimes it's just the clients. Between Kripkickers coments and Sweetnickki, I guess Albuquerque might be a place to avoid. Sorry you mey with some bad luck.

You still around? I'd love to see you!

Yup sometimes it's just karma and other times it's a brick wall.
l have had it both ways here some times xxx $$$$ for something less than spectacular.
Then find someone for say $200 for an hour is an all out gfe.
It's like Russian roulette without the gun.
Texas seems to be less expensive and a little more playful.

If I were a provider I would get down right sick and tired of people here always trying to haggle my fee and pulling no shows. If I were a provider who had a choice I would avoid this town and state altogether...... Like most of the quality traveling gals do, I can name a dozen that I have tried to get to NM but they basically laugh and say "yeah I don't think so!"

I am a small business owner and I have people try to haggle me all day everyday (unlike like back in my home state.... hell the Midwest in general) always saying things like "well I can get it for $xxx at such and such a place" my response is "well I would go there, and good luck".

I for one only use bp as a reference and only see gals from 411 or eccie.

Now, I am not bashing NM.... Hell I chose to move here because I love the STATE..... it's most of the people I could do without.....lolol

Sadly, I have to echo the views of many on here. I made quite an effort to get to ABQ fairly often the past year, and each visit became more of a struggle. Fortunately, I have befriended about 4 safe and reliable gents in the area whom I will continue to see when I pass through, but I am done with the games so many of you play here. We don't act that way in Vegas either... I am now to the point where instead of a destination ABQ/NM is merely a stop along the way to better pastures.