I had an incall at a motel for the longest time.. over a year. didnt really seem to bother my bfs.lol
But can totally understand an issue with them. I think a lot of it would be location and the neighborhood.
I am now in apt. and really dont see a difference either way. other than people are still trying to get used to me being in a different location now. lol.
I prefer my apartment. It seems to be more discrete and private for both me and my date. It is more personal and home-like to me than a cold apartment which makes everyone more comfortable and able to relax.
Also, a hotel seems to have more "foot traffic" in general compared to a residence. And that would make me nervous. You have to worry about housekeeping knocking on the door or seeing your "friends" come and go.
Regardless of *where* a date take place. It's all about how both parties are discreet in both their comings & going from said location.
The gals are responsible for SCREENING & the amount of foot traffic they allow to & from their place, on a hourly/daily/weekly/monthly basis. As well as making sure they utilize discretion in every way. The men are responsible for respecting the ladies wishes. And arriving & leaving in a discreet quiet manner. Rather than with a loud booming voice which attracts unwanted attention from fellow neighbors (be it in a hotel/motel/house or apartment).
While hotels/motels are not the best of the best. If that's all one can afford. Then make the best of it and utilize discretion.
Discretion & safety are the key components!
However, I personally wouldn't lay or enjoy a man anywhere I wouldn't lay my own naked body. Location is key for me. I'm picky as hell in not only who I enjoy but where.
I don't do old, dirty, seedy, unsafe nasty places when I travel for my own personal use and I sure as hell wouldn't be caught dead enjoying a date in such a nasty place. Now I need to go shower just thinking of those bug infested places.
I personally prefer outcalls to my house. I like the comfort of being able to enjoy the session and the after glow and be able to fall asleep after she leaves....