im always nervous about playing music because i personally enjoy fucking hardcore to some good rock like maybe deftones or nine inch nails or getting freaky to some r&b but Im younger and have a younger taste then some of my amazing elder gents that I like to cater to, so I dont know what kind of music to have playing for general use.... and disrobing is a great way to break the ice and get things started smoothly, I love that suggestion! <3
For an outcall,dress up like you are going on a date. I hate when ladies show up like they just came from Walmart. For an incall ask the guy what they would like to see you in and try to accommodate.