Reverse Tipping?

I'm new to the hobby, so I'm curious...

I was reading Cassandra's "why don't guys tip" threAD, and started wondering....

Has any provider ever said, ya know what, you blew my sox off in that session, here's a tip for the John. Or even better, it was such a wonderful experience, don't even bother paying me for my time. The time spent was mutually beneficial.

Yeah, I didn't think so. Had to ask though.

I'm new to the hobby, so I'm curious...

I was reading Cassandra's "why don't guys tip" threAD, and started wondering....

Has any provider ever said, ya know what, you blew my sox off in that session, here's a tip for the John. Or even better, it was such a wonderful experience, don't even bother paying me for my time. The time spent was mutually beneficial.

Yeah, I didn't think so. Had to ask though. Originally Posted by FÜN

Usually what happens is that the next time you see the lady she gives you a little more time.. (maybe 90 minutes instead of 60), or she hops in the shower with ya afterwards or she does something extra with you that she does not with others..

But NEVER expect it or ask... let them decide

Oh boy

I once tipped a provider and she gave me half of it back saying it was too much. I only offered 20% over her rate, to reimburse for the hotel room.

Also agree with GPop. With those where there is a chemistry or something, the clock tends to become less relevent.

^^^^ As a Provider...I agree with that statement.

Yup. I agree with the clock statement. More or less. I have given back some tip before- (honestly didn't feel as though I had worked to "earn it"- the date was too easy & too fun...) But time does get.... fuzzy when we have more fun... and... comfort levels change ... lol (No promises there or setting up other providers for clients expectations.... ) Let's just keep it as "it gets more friendlier when it is more fun/enjoyable."

Now, on that note, when a session is going downhill (NOT fun) the guy is being a dick, demanding, isn't respecting boundaries, clock watching goes into full effect to get his ass out ASAP- (Hey if he doesn't want to follow the rules... what can I say? TIME IS UP.)
But if he is being cool, we can be cool... and the clock... becomes the last thing on my mind.

I had one provider that gave me some of the donation back. I think that was a once in a lifetime thing, however, so don't expect it. Just be happy if she gives you some extra attention and forgets about the clock.

It happens.

I get tips all the time from providers ... it is consistently to keep my pants on. They just do not appreciate my 1.3" of dangling death.

I also believe if you treat a lady with respect and kindness, it can go a long ways. Also the statement about chemistry and the clock is very true. I had a provider take me to lunch after our session in her Jag. That was fun.

Lunch reminds me. My thai appointments were generally 10 a.m. after, i would drive the ladies to lunch and they would pay my lunch.

I miss those ladies......especially a certain one of them

If a provider tries to give you back part or all of the fee it's time for the hobbyists to run not walk out of the incall.

I also believe if you treat a lady with respect and kindness, it can go a long ways. Also the statement about chemistry and the clock is very true. I had a provider take me to lunch after our session in her Jag. That was fun. Originally Posted by bon69

I've had a buy an hour get an hour free session, but that was after a substantial tip a few sessions prior, so I suppose it was almost a wash.

A good business person would throw in some sort of appreciation for a good steady client.