I'm curious about something.... If a gentleman makes an appointment and sees one of us ladies - and smiles and chats and never even hints that he's got an issue - and then goes on to write a bad review.... Just how does one prevent it?
Guys, I understand.... A ladies donation is quite an expenditure. And believe me, if I was spending that amount, I would damn straight expect a wonderful experience! Anyone would.
But how exactly do you expect someone to remedy a problem they don't know about? I'm fairly decent at reading other people's moods, etc., but I'm not a mind reader! If you're not satisfied or there's a problem, let us know. Don't smile and act like everything's peachy and then go write a bad review. Give us an opportunity to address the issue.
Also, if the lady isn't what you expected or doesn't suit your taste for any reason, don't feel obliged to go through with the appointment. Simply tell her something like "I'm sorry. This isn't good for me." or "I'm sorry but I've changed my mind". It's not going to hurt anyone's feelings and it won't be the first time it happens. I understand that a lady might not be your cup of tea for whatever reason..... But if you go through with the appointment, I generally assume we're all good. I'd much rather you end it at the beginning than go through the entire time and go back and write a bad review.
Any one else have an opinion on the subject?
- candaceofdenver
- 08-24-2015, 01:28 AM
- Randy Shreveport
- 08-24-2015, 11:54 AM
Don't really have an answer for you but just wanted to comment and say I've certainly enjoyed visiting with you and will miss you when you go back to Denver.
- 1tesla2
- 08-27-2015, 10:40 PM
I haven't seen you yet, and probably won't now, so I chime in general observations... right! everyone I just disqualified myself.
If that hobbyist don't realize that our precious ladies here in shreveport/bossier city, don't have the control-- then I believe he's very much mistaken. Maybe that hobbyist will have been not affected by the word "straight from the horses mouth" ( it's a figurative Denver) but Im gonna guess he just blew it, now that the truth has come to lite.
Whatever happened to "take you at your word, sir" in our theater, everyone takes everyone's word at face value to a healthy extent for safety sake, right?
You can't be saying that you've NEVER been in a situation, that you didn't think or say" oh here, let me see if I have a magic 8 ball in my pocket" then said to yourself,"dumb ass"
Anyway, I'm thinking this hobbyist is a complete narcissist or don't really think things thru. Good, bad or indifferent, I would like to thank that hobbyist for Denvers move outta here.
I put my two cents in, with the full knowledge of slamming, ridicule or anything else that comes my way (disclaimer) .... and if it does, I'll probably reply back with"thanks for sharing that with me, I'll make sure and not consider it in da future" and just ignore them.
Good luck in Denver, Denver!
If that hobbyist don't realize that our precious ladies here in shreveport/bossier city, don't have the control-- then I believe he's very much mistaken. Maybe that hobbyist will have been not affected by the word "straight from the horses mouth" ( it's a figurative Denver) but Im gonna guess he just blew it, now that the truth has come to lite.
Whatever happened to "take you at your word, sir" in our theater, everyone takes everyone's word at face value to a healthy extent for safety sake, right?
You can't be saying that you've NEVER been in a situation, that you didn't think or say" oh here, let me see if I have a magic 8 ball in my pocket" then said to yourself,"dumb ass"
Anyway, I'm thinking this hobbyist is a complete narcissist or don't really think things thru. Good, bad or indifferent, I would like to thank that hobbyist for Denvers move outta here.
I put my two cents in, with the full knowledge of slamming, ridicule or anything else that comes my way (disclaimer) .... and if it does, I'll probably reply back with"thanks for sharing that with me, I'll make sure and not consider it in da future" and just ignore them.
Good luck in Denver, Denver!
- ~Ynot~
- 08-28-2015, 10:33 AM
Here is my outside observation and commment. And yes I will take whatever repercussions come my way.
Candace, you simply cannot prevent it. Some guys dont have the cahonies to lay down a partial payment and say thanks but no thanks, its not what I expected and walk out.You seem like an understandining lady that would not go postal so Im not sure why he decided to go thru with a date he was not going to enjoy. It was just a bad decision and he took it out on ya publicly. Ya cant be everyones cup of tea. Dont let it ruin ya. You will be fine. I wish you the best of luck in Denver.
~Y~
Candace, you simply cannot prevent it. Some guys dont have the cahonies to lay down a partial payment and say thanks but no thanks, its not what I expected and walk out.You seem like an understandining lady that would not go postal so Im not sure why he decided to go thru with a date he was not going to enjoy. It was just a bad decision and he took it out on ya publicly. Ya cant be everyones cup of tea. Dont let it ruin ya. You will be fine. I wish you the best of luck in Denver.
~Y~