secret sex cravings...

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I found this article in mens health....found it to be so true...


Some men go nuts for sultry sights, others for naughty words and still others for tantalizing touches...: A guy says a silent thank-you whenever you're lavishing attention on him in bed. But have you ever wondered which of your moves he loves most?


Rock His Visual World
Go Ahead and Jiggle
You may feel self-conscious when your thighs wobble during a romp, but trust us, he's loving it. "Guys crave seeing some jiggle. Because it's so feminine, it makes him feel more masculine," explains Yvonne K. Fulbright, author of The Hot Guide to Safer Sex. "Plus the greater the jiggle, the more active and uninhibited the sex will seem."

Make Love in Front of a Mirror
Mirrors give him new angles on the action, so he'll love this passionate pose: Face a mirror with him behind you. Have him enter you, then lean your head against his shoulder and wrap one arm up around his neck. Your entwined bodies will look like a piece of art.

Lock Eyes for the Big O
Sometimes the sexiest images are the simplest. The next time you're about to have an orgasm, stare into his eyes and hold his gaze. Visual guys will feel superclose to you with this technique.

Lovers of music and long conversations, these lusty listeners also give themselves away with phrases like "That rings true to me" or "Keep your ear to the ground." The key to his heart is turning your lovemaking into a wall of hot sounds.

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Let Your Bodies Talk
Two bodies working in concert makes for loads of interesting noises — and auditory-type guys really dig the sound of sex. The sex position that'll deliver some serious erotic audio is one that traps the most moisture between your bodies: Try sitting facing each other, legs entwined, and have him rock rather than thrust into you.

Turn on Some Sexy Sounds
The right music will totally enhance the sound hound's experience. Anything by Barry White will do the trick or try the sweet tones of Sade to turn him on.

These guys most crave anything they can feel on every inch of their bodies, says Jay Arthur, author of Attracting Romance. When they talk (which isn't often), they will nonetheless wax on about "how they feel," he says.

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Give Him Some Good Vibes
Your touch-craving guy will no doubt enjoy the feel of a vibrator just as much as you do, so amaze and delight him while you're busy doing the deed by placing your buzzing buddy on your lower abdomen and pressing down firmly. That way, he'll be able to feel the vibrations indirectly, a subtle yet sublime sensation.

A small percentage of men (around 5 percent) fall into a fourth category: They get turned on primarily through their senses of smell and taste, says master practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming Jay Arthur. Here's how to turn these guys on.

1. Light a sexy scent
The next three times you have sex, light one special scented candle...some scents are true aphrodisiacs,like vanilla or cherry.

2. Give him a flavored kiss
When you're alone with him, get out the Baileys Irish Cream, crème de menthe, and a raspberry-flavored liqueur. Then lean over and whisper, "Close your eyes and try to guess which one I've sipped." On your first kiss, lightly trace the tip of your tongue along his lips. If he can't pinpoint the flavor, delve deeper.


SO GUYS --WHAT IS YOUR "HOT BUTTON"/WHAT TURNS YOU ON THE MOST???? Ladies what turns you on most????
Interesting question that I had to think about for a while. Based on "the most" criteria my answer has to be visual. Mirrors always enhance the experience for me.

But I was somewhat surprised to realize that smell and taste is a very strong second place. When I thought about it, my fetishes have a strong taste and smell component.
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SO GUYS --WHAT IS YOUR "HOT BUTTON"/WHAT TURNS YOU ON THE MOST? Originally Posted by DallasRain
hmmm....Mine isn't listed so I will have to go with the flavored kiss.

You need to add "Say Yes To Him".
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My turn on is SMELL!! Can also be a turn off too though! In my experience, where the mouth goes...the nose follows! As much as I like the smell of a sweet perfume, I really love the natural smell of a woman! As "ToesOnMyNose" implies...I like to smell a woman's feet. I love the smell of a lady who has been wearing heels and hose all day! Started the day fresh outta the shower, so her feet are clean, but the natural odor from the day's activities really does it for me! Ladies....protect those feet! I get really disappointed when I show up to a hotel in call and the lady is barefoot! Walking barefoot on hotel carpet is a no no! Her feet will take on the smell of the carpet...smokey, stale or moldy smell. Keep it natural! That's my ten cents! Anyo else enjoy the smell of feet?
I love the erotic smell of a lady clean freshly showered ass. Its an aroma that gets me going and for those who have ever smelled a freshly showed ass, its not a shit smell. Its ass. Its different in aroma and its erotic. I also love a lady who loves to DFK and be aggressive with it, sucking on my tongue alot. 20 yrs ago I started dated a lady who I saw 4-5 times in a month visit back east in NYC. We always started the DFK at the beginning for about 10 minutes. She was maybe 27, beautiful face, I was mid 30s. We just connected. On my last session with her she really opened up and mentioned how much she loved to kiss. It was an hour session, or it was supposed to be. We frenched kissed for the full hour before she reached down and started a cock massage with lube. I glanced at the clock and said my time is up. She just said we are not done yet, just relax and Its free. We kept DFK for onother half hour while she massaged me cock and she put my hand down below to finger her chit and pussy. We both came at the same time while continuing to kiss. It was my favorite total sensual session. When we finished, she washed me up, I dressed and it was close to 2 hrs. I tipped her well. I actually felt I could have started to date her. We hinted around about it but I realized it wasnt my place to try to pull her away from her employment. I never saw her again.....that session was move love making than sex.It almost scared me. I could have easily fallen in love with her, thats what extended DFK can do. It was a long time ago..
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  • Roboz
  • 09-12-2015, 09:45 AM
Mirror mirror on the wall I like to look at me and her when we ball
). Haven't used "ball" for f**kin since the 60's lol
Its no secret, Eating a nice providers ass out.
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Its no secret, Eating a nice providers ass out. Originally Posted by MrNyceGuy


mmmmmmmm sounds fun!!!
just out of the shower and IOP that the thought that I am paying you doesn't cross my mind for an hour.
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just out of the shower and IOP that the thought that I am paying you doesn't cross my mind for an hour. Originally Posted by Mizzou82
great point...in my opinion,the provider should be the one to make sure your mind is where it needs to be while yall are together!
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Nothing better than a freshly showered lady that will bend over and let you stick your finger in her ass while you are licking her asshole
I like that thought WMJ, but I personally would prefer sideways 69 with bbbj, and when Im approaching release, just going for it, and stoving my tongue up her asshole as far as I can get it in while Im exploding in her mouth. Yes, of course, she is freshly showered too.
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  • pun77
  • 09-15-2015, 11:18 AM
"Locking eyes for the Big O." There's nothing sexier, more of a turn on, or makes me pop quicker than looking into the eyes of a woman while she's climaxing.
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"Locking eyes for the Big O." There's nothing sexier, more of a turn on, or makes me pop quicker than looking into the eyes of a woman while she's climaxing. Originally Posted by pun77