Questions

So my story goes like this. A provider shows up on here, I send her a few questions just like any client might do, to find out her likes, dislikes, price point, requesting up dated pics or any if she has some, menu items, specials, anything that she would like to give me info about herself.

Do you guys think it's wrong to ask these questions.

I'm sure I'm not the only one asking questions like this.

Do you guys think the provider should or shouldn't respond.



And please don't say it's because it's me!!

Seriously, you write a book, ask her all kinds of personal and inappropriate shit and you wonder if anyone does the same? The answer is, non of us that know better and only newbies or morons.

Do you get any responses? If the answer is no your question has been answered.

Sucba, now the question is to you, how do you know what I ask.
You stated I write a book. Asking what.
Please enlighten me, on what questions should be asked.

Very interesting!

I send her a few questions just like any client might do, to find out her likes, dislikes, price point, requesting up dated pics or any if she has some, menu items, specials, anything that she would like to give me info about herself.

Do you guys think it's wrong to ask these questions.

I'm sure I'm not the only one asking questions like this.

Do you guys think the provider should or shouldn't respond.

! Originally Posted by Helicopter206

Seriously, you write a book, ask her all kinds of personal and inappropriate shit and you wonder if anyone does the same? The answer is, non of us that know better and only newbies or morons. Originally Posted by ScubaBad

Sucba, now the question is to you, how do you know what I ask.
You stated I write a book. Asking what.
Please enlighten me, on what questions should be asked.

Very interesting! Originally Posted by Helicopter206

You asked about 7 things... some not so bad, some not so good... I think that is what was meant by a book. From a provider's viewpoint like mine... I would have a red flag if someone asked me about price points, menus and specials if it was the first message to me. I do not even venture into those topics on a first contact. And then, even after screening, I remain covert about it.

I am assuming that she must not have had much info in an ad and that is why you were asking. I would have sent the provider a short email, text, PM or whatever the communication device is, "Hi... I noticed you do not have very much info. Is there a website available. I am possibly interested so please tell me a little about yourself."

Quick, simple, non-intrusive...

Just an opinion from an oldie but goodie provider!

Hope that helps understanding why it could have been viewed as a little too much.

Smooch!

Lea

Copter...what she said. I have never sent PM to a gal that was more than a couple of sentences.

nothing should be in writing except info needed to set up an appointment. If you have never seen her, you should be cautious if she answered anything about activities to take place. You are not taking a car for a test drive and asking for an autofax

Wait... Don't reviews act like a Carfax???

LOL!!

Lea, only if the provider is a fox.

You asked about 7 things... some not so bad, some not so good... I think that is what was meant by a book. From a provider's viewpoint like mine... I would have a red flag if someone asked me about price points, menus and specials if it was the first message to me. I do not even venture into those topics on a first contact. And then, even after screening, I remain covert about it.

I am assuming that she must not have had much info in an ad and that is why you were asking. I would have sent the provider a short email, text, PM or whatever the communication device is, "Hi... I noticed you do not have very much info. Is there a website available. I am possibly interested so please tell me a little about yourself."

Quick, simple, non-intrusive...

Just an opinion from an oldie but goodie provider!

Hope that helps understanding why it could have been viewed as a little too much.

Smooch!

Lea Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

I would have to agree with Lea, I would be hesitant to answer questions like this!!

Copter...Its because its you

So my story goes like this. Originally Posted by Helicopter206

There are 8 million stories in the life of Helicopter as a hobbyist and this is just one of them.

I might ask one or two of the questions you posed if there was very little information, but most were out of line, as were several of your responses to her when she politely refused to answer any of your queries.

You can certainly ask whatever question you want, but the lady isn't required to answer any of them. The proper action is to move on until further information becomes available, not criticize the lady for being offended by your questions.

nevermind. Sounds like there is more to this story...

Frankie, actually it's a short story, but yes, it does repeat:

Christ, she has a showcase here, a website and 10 pages of reviews... and you ping her for more pics and play lets make a deal, followed up by a thread bitching about it.

And please don't say it's because it's me!!

Hate to beak it to you... it's because its you.