Best provider for overweight guys...

Anybody specialize/not mind dealing with the really overweight. Had an injury that affected mobility, and gained a lot of weight. Looking for a good experience...

How overweight?
are you clean? clean under any/all fat folds?

can you get it up?

sounds as though you have self-esteem issues, or have providers took a look at you and rejected you?

can you walk?
I undertand an injury lowering calories burned(cause you don't move) and food is a great drug to make you feel better.
but you arent overweight cause you got hurt, you are overweight cause you ate too much.
I hope you are working to get lean, so this isnt any issue in the future.

[QUOTE=bigcockpussylicker;10572 12405]How overweight?
are you clean? clean under any/all fat folds?

can you get it up?

sounds as though you have self-esteem issues, or have providers took a look at you and rejected you?

can you walk?
I undertand an injury lowering calories burned(cause you don't move) and food is a great drug to make you feel better.
but you arent overweight cause you got hurt, you are overweight cause you ate too much.
I hope you are working to get lean, so this isnt any issue in the future.[/QUOT


Is it against guidelines to comment that someone is a total ass hole? Not saying it, just wondered

[QUOTE=Mizzou82;1057212412]

How overweight?
are you clean? clean under any/all fat folds?

can you get it up?

sounds as though you have self-esteem issues, or have providers took a look at you and rejected you?

can you walk?
I undertand an injury lowering calories burned(cause you don't move) and food is a great drug to make you feel better.
but you arent overweight cause you got hurt, you are overweight cause you ate too much.
I hope you are working to get lean, so this isnt any issue in the future.[/QUOT


Is it against guidelines to comment that someone is a total ass hole? Not saying it, just wondered Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

+1

Hey Croc - I used to be morbidly obese, pushing 430 pounds (have dropped almost 200 pounds) and I got lots of appointments from lovely ladies who made me feel like a king for the hour. Most ladies don't really care about appearance - just hygiene, safety and treating them with respect. Check out my reviews up until about May 2013 when I was at my heaviest. Those ladies are good to go by. The ones I have seen recently, based on their personality, I really doubt they would turn you away because of being overweight. I think you'll find most providers being very caring and understanding individuals.

Autumn, Kaylen, Bella Love, Lariyah and Ginger all saw me at my highest weight (and some multiple times) and none of them complained. Reach out to them.

Is it against guidelines to comment that someone is a total ass hole? Not saying it, just wondered Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Yes. All of us may think you nailed it, but don't say it.

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sounds as though you have self-esteem issues, or have providers took a look at you and rejected you? Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Please do not attempt to psychoanalyze other members. Save that for yourself-s31

Anybody specialize/not mind dealing with the really overweight. Had an injury that affected mobility, and gained a lot of weight. Looking for a good experience... Originally Posted by croc1970

To be honest...several of us ladies enjoy a larger man for numerous reasons. Please don't let the inappropriate comments of ignorant asses get to you. I guarantee you that you'll get more appointments than eccie's social rejects ♡♡♡♡

Reach out to some ladies in the kc area and you'll find we aren't judgmental. Most don't even ask personal questions about size or appearance.

Good luck to you, sir.

Hey dude I'm 6'3" and 280. Nothing skinny here. At first, that was 1st question I asked every provider, "Do you like big guys?"... Not 1 provider turned me down. Like the consensus here says, be clean, smell fresh. I don't ask that question anymore! Hang in there big guy

Yes. All of us may think you nailed it, but don't say it. Originally Posted by scorpio31

Please don't let the inappropriate comments of ignorant asses get to you. Originally Posted by MissSaraXXX

+1

Croc, In my experience, Men are the ones with more of a problem then women when it comes to BCD with someone of the opposite sex that is overweight. Yes, looks help as a first attraction, but with women it "appears to me" that they are more interested in cleanliness, personality, respect, etc, then looks. So it "might" be nice to give them a heads up so they aren't surprised if you feel you need to, but you probably don't have anything to worry about if you don't. The only reason I see to tell them is so that you don't feel bad if you meet a B**tch that slams the door on you when she first sees you because of it. I haven't been on here long, but I do recall that happening to one person, I think up in St. Joe a couple months ago. Just to be clear in case someone says something, I don't know if it was his weight or something else though but it sounded like it might be to me.

When most (apparently not all) men get older and more experienced (women too), we learn that we were stupid when young and that heavier set women have just as much to give and appreciate as thin/petite women, in some cases more. It really depends on the person, not their looks, weight, etc. I have met, been with, dated, even married (one), overweight women and petite women and find that it is the personality that I like the most after first "visual" contact.

How overweight?
are you clean? clean under any/all fat folds?

can you get it up?

sounds as though you have self-esteem issues, or have providers took a look at you and rejected you?

can you walk?
I undertand an injury lowering calories burned(cause you don't move) and food is a great drug to make you feel better.
but you arent overweight cause you got hurt, you are overweight cause you ate too much.
I hope you are working to get lean, so this isnt any issue in the future. Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Well done Sir. You simultaneously won the Asshat Of The Year Award, while contributing absolutely nothing whatsoever of value to the topic of the thread.

To the original poster: So sorry for the asshat poster. I would be happy to give you a cardio workout that is alot more fun than anything BCPL might suggest. And just because his comment really pissed me smooth off, I will also be very happy to offer you a welcome to the hobby special!

BCPL - you really need to learn that sex is about much more than a number on a weight scale, and that humanity can never be measured by calories. If I do nothing else as a provider, I hope to God that every man who comes to see me - regardless of whether they are short or tall, skinny or fat, old or young, black, white, brown, or pink polka dotted, disabled, scarred, flawless - they walk away knowing they were not judged, and knowing they were accepted unconditionally.

The original poster will always be welcome at my incall. You on the other hand, are ugly on the inside where nothing can fix it, and would never be.

Well done Sir. You simultaneously won the Asshat Of The Year Award, while contributing absolutely nothing whatsoever of value to the topic of the thread.

To the original poster: So sorry for the asshat poster. I would be happy to give you a cardio workout that is alot more fun than anything BCPL might suggest. And just because his comment really pissed me smooth off, I will also be very happy to offer you a welcome to the hobby special!

BCPL - you really need to learn that sex is about much more than a number on a weight scale, and that humanity can never be measured by calories. If I do nothing else as a provider, I hope to God that every man who comes to see me - regardless of whether they are short or tall, skinny or fat, old or young, black, white, brown, or pink polka dotted, disabled, scarred, flawless - they walk away knowing they were not judged, and knowing they were accepted unconditionally.

The original poster will always be welcome at my incall. You on the other hand, are ugly on the inside where nothing can fix it, and would never be. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Sins I couldn't have said it better! !

[QUOTE=scorpio31;1057212839]Yes. All of us may think you nailed it, but don't say it.

#3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. This applies to fellow members as well as staff. We do not require that you have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in the public forums. If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that you keep it private. Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the appropriate avenue to take in such cases. In cases where you would like to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of communication. If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful manner.
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Thanks for clearing that up Scorpio

And for the OP, looks like a lot more ladies will see you than the first guy to offer "advice" to your request.

How overweight?
are you clean? clean under any/all fat folds?

can you get it up?

sounds as though you have self-esteem issues, or have providers took a look at you and rejected you?

can you walk?
I undertand an injury lowering calories burned(cause you don't move) and food is a great drug to make you feel better.
but you arent overweight cause you got hurt, you are overweight cause you ate too much.
I hope you are working to get lean, so this isnt any issue in the future. Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

I was always curious what the term "asshat" meant, now I know.

croc, with one exception, looks like you already got some good answers. I just want to add that I hope you have lots of fun in the near future. We all deserve it.