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When I started working as a private companion/female escort less than a year ago, I had so many misconceptions about the “world of escorting”. Most of what I thought or should I say thought I knew to be true is what society has coined to be true of the world and I like so many people everywhere believed to be true. Believed it to be the gospel so to speak.
The images that society paints and the moral standards that are implied is that it’s wrong, indecent, humiliating to women, degrading…. only the lowest of women would sell themselves etc….etc…..etc….. Not to mention the “classification” or should I say DE-classification of women socially, morally, physically, emotionally and spiritually by society of the ladies that escort.
I find it rather amusing, especially now, how society takes it upon itself to judge the women, the men, the agency owners and the clients of this profession. I could write on that as a separate entity but for today I would just like to share with anyone who is reading my journey into the world of escorting and the many wonderful people I have met a long the way so far. Also, how it has helped me grow as a person…. maybe it will give you insight into a world that is not what it is painted to be, well not at least the part of the planet that I am in…. perhaps it may change your perspectives, beliefs on the escorting world.
First let me tell you about me, I am female, a mother and a college graduate. I have a Master’s degree in a healthcare profession and hold a full time job in the community in which I live. I am also a member of my local Rotary Club in Indra Nagar . Oh! And I appreciate and listen to classical Hindi music… as I write this I am listening to Lata angehwar and it still gives me chills. To look at me I am just as normal as you, your sister, your aunt, your best friend, your child’s teacher, your doctor, the receptionist you see everyday or any other female you know and consider the norm. Do I look like an escort?
Well now, that is a good question because that too, is another topic for a separate entry.
Because it flows with the stereotypical image of this world that has been painted by society. Most of the time, escorts are portrayed as streetwalkers. The typical picture is that of the mini-skirt clad, high heeled babe leaning over the window of a car on the street in Brigade Road. And in turn follows the typical judgment of drug abuse and alcohol, perhaps homelessness and the “pimp” that abuses them. Now, I know this part of the world does exist and it saddens me…
Real quick though: Do I look like that? NO….do I judge those women? Absolutely not. And NOONE should….my favorite quote and how I live my life is according to the quote– “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone….” I would be the LAST person anyone would think was a professional companion/escort.
And I will let you in on a secret…I love it! It is the most self-rewarding and fulfilling job I have had…well next to being a Mom, of course! I like to think of escorting as a craft, a hobby, an art that is perfected each and every time I meet with someone!
And this brings me to the fun part…. the rewards of my “hobby” let’s call it and why it is so rewarding…the why is made up of two parts: One part: my growth and me And part two: the agency that I work for ( bangaloreGirlFriendssexperienc e.com ), the man that owns the agency and the clientele that it services.
The agency I work for has become a guiding light for me and for the women that work there. I have grown more personally and spiritually in the time working for Dreams than I have in my lifetime. I have met men and women that have contributed to my growth in ways I could have only imagined. How? You ask.
Well you see there is a misconception out there that people use this service for one thing and that is SO NOT TRUE!
Let’s put one to bed right now (sorry bad use of words…. wink) but the “client”. I have spent intimate time just listening to many gentlemen talk about their lives and provided them with an outlet to just talk…I know, I know men, talk, in the same sentence?….LOL but yes talk! And do they ever…..and I Love IT! Why? Because they need it and it makes me feel good that I can be there for them. They talk about things that their significant other has probably heard a thousand times but to them it is reminiscent of their younger days and yes…less complicated times. And I respond naturally just like their women did the first times they heard it! But for them it’s all about the thrill! The thrill of having some attention!
Let’s face it Ladies we are all guilty of being wrapped to tight with life’s string of stressors and for us it isn’t easy to put the sink full of dishes, the pile of bills, the dentist appointment , etc, etc, etc….out of our minds for an hour yet alone spend some time with our men without staring at the ceiling wandering…..”Shoot Did I remember to call the phone company and make that late payment?” and…. How many times has it even slipped out of our mouths? Or you have been caught staring into space and accused of not even being there….. Heck, I have heard men say the whole house has to be clean not just the dishes and the moon and stars have to be aligned just right. Ah well, I am guilty of that one in the past…not anymore as I said I am growing past a lot of my personal bs. But now men they can nine out of ten times put just about anything out of their minds to get down to business with their woman! And enjoy themselves and hours later wander what they were stressed out about…..lol.
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A lot of times men need another person to vent to that isn’t their significant other, this doesn’t say that I (we) replace or can even remotely try nor want to try to replace a significant other, it just means that in the busy lives we all are guilty of today, men would rather spend their time with a significant other serving other purposes than rehashing their work week or other stresses.
Most of the men I have met (with the exception of one and well he was just to hung up on his “personal” materials to tear him away from his ego…smile) have been just the sweetest most adoring men you’d ever want to meet. Just normal guys needing an escape, a warm body or a woman to make them feel like they hung the moon even if for an hour or two! Personal attention that is what it is all about.
And I have to say I have more respect for these guys than I do for the guys that lie and cheat on their significant others by having intimate long drawn out emotional affairs. Think about it? This is not personal for either the associate or the client, it is a service and that is it! Just like when you go get your car tuned up or you get a haircut, your nails manicured or your Saree dry-cleaned.
The clients of the agency ( bangaloregirlfriendsexperience .com ) I work for are men and women of middle to upper class. They are respectable, professional and well-mannered just generally very nice people. I have met accountants, bankers, salespeople, clergymen, lawyers, doctors, construction workers, retail workers, teachers and I can tell you they are just normal everyday people.
You would never know they are “escort see-ers”.
My rewards have been so many and so I set up this Write up on the demand from my Boss to discuss the rewards, the agency, the owner and the clientele and let you see into the beautiful world of what I do!
Why at bangaloregirlfriendsexperience .com ?
There's a few reasons actually:
Do you Guess the Split Ratio in Most Agencies in India it is like Leaches they suck your blood literally and here at bangaloregirlfriendsexperience .com it is more better it is the best in the industry and it is 20;80 and you get the reward for your sweat and moreover they totally ignore the gifts showerd upon by the cleins and thier cleint base is astounding and they gaurentee your Income before hand and do deliver daily bussiness and are more friendleir people.
And i have never ever thought my privacy is at stake with them.
Money is the most common reason. Women from ages 18-63 are sick and tired of working for peanuts and they don't want on Petty Salary, so they decide to become escorts. Yes you heard me, I'm proud to say that one of my Co team Worker in bangaloregirlfriendsexperience .com is a very young 63 year old, and from the sounds of it, she's happy working as an escort and probably doing better than women in their 20's.
My hat goes off to her and she will always be a shining example of what makes this industry great and gives women of all ages an opportunity to be free and successful!
But an escort will never enjoy her work or make her clients happy if all she cares about is money, so what are the other reasons females decide they want to become escorts?
Because they enjoy making people happy. They feel they will be good at it. They are a people person.
They also feel they will make a difference in the escort industry This is exactly why I stay in the escort industry, to make a difference.
The world is changing, relationships are changing, Not only is the divorce rate 1 in 2, I'd take a guess and say that the other 50% comprises of at least 15-20% men and women who stay in the relationship or marriage ONLY for financial reasons or for the children. They don't want to be in that relationship, but they feel forced into staying.
I may not agree with their choice to stay, but if they are going to, that opens a pool of men and women who need outside companionship.
Last but not least, the other most common reason women become an escort, is not because they are desperate for money, nooooo, they already make an above average income, but they are sick and tired of working so many hours every day. They've generally been in their career for at least 15-20 years and they need a break, but they don't want to give up their affluent lifestyle. Who could blame them.
What could you do with an income several times higher what you’re making now?
Would you feel happier and less stressed? Would you feel more relaxed about your college or university tuition, overdue bills, and rent?
Would your lifestyle change? Could you see yourself spending more time at the mall In Mg Road buying your dream outfits, dazzling jewelry and fancy shoes? Eating at
better restaurants in Brigade Road ? Driving a better car?
Would you see more of the world? Not just to your favorite places, but also new and exciting destinations you’ve only heard about from others who are luckier than you?
Would you live in a nicer home? Would it be a nice neighborhood in the suburbs, or a cozy Apartment in an exclusive part of town?
All this is possible for YOU because successful escorts also call their own shots.
They work when and where they choose. They’re totally independent of hiring, firing or degrading office politics.
In fact, good escorts are among the freest people on earth. They’re enjoying life to the fullest, and reaping the rewards that only a fat and secure bank account can offer.
For some it's a whole new way to achieve financial success, pay for school or simply enjoy the finer things in life.
And make no mistake about it…
This exclusive escort industry is for those who WANT to successfully run a Professional, ethical and customer-oriented business You’ll learn everything you must know to enter and stay on top of this game and http://www.bangaloreGirlFriendssexperience.com/is the best to start your career.
Let’s face it! You’re reading this because you want a better life for yourself.
If you’re a student… You want to pay off your hefty tuition bills and start saving for your future, especially if that future is one where graduating seniors are finding jobs hard to come by.
If you’re at the bottom or middle of the J.O.B. (Just Over Broke) food chain…
You’ve had enough of the long hours, poor pay, and thankless management.
If you’re already a successful professional with a “real” career… You’re out of patience with back-stabbing office politics, constant stress, long hours and hard-to-get promotions.
And to top it all off… hanging over everything is the crumbling economy. Listen to any news program and you’ll hear about Corruption and politics in the Indian Economy. Banks are failing. Regular companies are shutting their doors. Bills are rising. People are cutting back and trying to keep their head above water as things get darker and darker.
Is that the grim future YOU really want?
The fact is, you don’t want to be one of the crowd that’s living in the poor house or going down with the ship.
While others are worrying about how they’ll even pay their bills, as a professional escort Easily making rental or mortgage payments on a new and better home.
Driving a new car with all the extras you’ve always wanted Expanding your wardrobe and accessories with high-quality fashionsPampering yourself with the finest spa treatments
Savoring the best entrees from the best restaurants the city has to offer Collecting beautiful art, antiques and other fine goodsEnjoying vacations to exotic cities and locations that others only dream about Creating a secure and stable future that lets you (and your family) sleep easilyand truly enjoy life!
OK, by now you’re asking yourself…
Not the business of fast money anymore, but still a good personal choice.
There was a time when you could enter the escort business at the web based independent or agency level and make a lot of money. Back then we were more of a “in the know” thing and didn’t have to worry about getting busted either.
Times have changed. yea right! How about depression, has put a hurting on the sex industry. Oh yes, I said the “sex” word. For those of you who are still in denial, about 90% of escorts are sex workers. Is it all about sex? NO but don’t think for a second some guy is going to pay you just to go to dinner. That is a fantasy often created by those of us who don’t want to accept the truth of what we really are. So to further our denial we come up with pretty words like “Escort” and “Social Companion”. Let me be clear, for those of us at the middle to high end of the business, we are also paid for our time and companionship.
There are many women who are now wanting to become escorts, so much so, the market is getting a bit flooded right now. If you’re thinking of doing this because your mortgage or car payment is due next week and you need immediate cash, I hate to tell you but in many cases it’s not going to happen. You needed to have begun the day after you were laid off months ago. At the higher end of the business it’s all about marketing and what you as a product have to offer.
This business has many different levels the lower the level the higher the risk.
Depending upon where you live, Bangalore Craigslist operations have twice to four times the volume unlike a web based agency ,Usually they don’t adequately screen and will do business with any guy with cash in his pocket. This also means they’ll do business with people some higher end agencies wouldn’t touch.
We all would like to think we’re worth a INR 20,000.00/ an hour but the truth is 98% of us are not. Many women come into this business thinking some guy is going to pay that (especially you models please GET a LIFE!) and quickly find out the hard cold truth. Keep dreaming. If you want a shot at that kind of money in this business you need to move to Delhi or Singapore. By the way, if you do find a guy who willing pay that, go for it. However, I must warn you, chances are it’s just luck. I wish you good luck in replicating it. If you can get him to do it every week for a month or every month for at least 6 months then you’re on to something.
Otherwise, it’s what is called a fluke and you can’t constantly pay your bills on flukes! Then there is the issue of INR 20,000.00/ the first time, then he only pays you INR 10,000/ the next and then INR 5000.00/ and so on. Meanwhile, your best friend who went to work for the agency or is an independent has probably out earned you when you add it all up over the same amount of time. I can’t tell you how many women have fallen for this flash technique. Especially those of you who frequent sugardaddy sites, which has nothing to do with the escort business. Getting paid less and less money for the same amount of time. Then Mr. Sweetness and light turns into Mr Jealous possessive control freak who wants to be your boyfriend and “save you”. By the way, when you say “no” be prepared for things to get really ugly.
In today’s world it’s all about marketing and for many agencies or new women there is ramp up time before you get business depending upon where you live and your market conditions. If your an independent and the new girl on the block everyone will come running to you, especially ALL the PREDATORS the other women wont see.
Think of it this way, your fresh meat who’s new and doesn’t have a clue. Many women who start out as independents don’t make it 6 months. Just don’t get lulled by the initial overwhelming interest, it WILL die down and if you haven’t banked that money, you’ll be sorry.
If you apply to an agency read this website :
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and this where i make my Bread and Butter and I do have a posh Apartment in Ulsoor and a car of my own ,take the time to see what they are all about. How an agency markets you is different than how an independent handles herself. Some agencies it’s all about the money, others it’s all about the “art” of what we do. If you’re the kind of women who only cares about the money, stay away from agencies who care about “the craft” of Escorting. I will tell you now, it won’t be a good fit. Also under the current economic climate it can take up to a month before you get your first call, is some places. There are a lot of women jumping into this business and it may take time to get noticed. In cases such as this, go with agencies who do long term marketing, in the end you’ll be better off. A little secret about who has a competitive edge. Those who are REALLY open minded when it comes to various acts. Women who knew in their youth this what they always wanted to do. Ladies who are natural born pleasers and you get off on giving pleasure.
Finally, please remember something very important. Just because men show interest in you in a bar, club or on the street doesn’t mean you’re marketable as an escort. This is a whole other playing field and personality profile type when it comes to men. The latter want you for “free” but watch what happens the moment you tell them, cash up front. Go a head try it. Prove me wrong, I dare you… I double dog dare you.
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