Notice...too little? To much?

Gents, how much notice do you try to give a lady to set up an appt?

Ladies, what is enough notice?

I've tried next day appts with a couple ladies and can't get it done. I think they are night owls amd I am a late morning/early afternoon guy. I've set up appts for an hour from first contact, too.

Gents, how much notice do you try to give a lady to set up an appt?

Ladies, what is enough notice?

I've tried next day appts with a couple ladies and can't get it done. I think they are night owls amd I am a late morning/early afternoon guy. I've set up appts for an hour from first contact, too. Originally Posted by seekinggradeAbj

I personally like some notice before meeting a new client. However, I LOVE seeing my regular clients on the spur of the moment. I'm sorry you're not having any luck!! Gals, this gent is AWESOME I can personally vouch for that!!

my situation at home doesn't permit me to book too far in advance. More often than not I have to have same day appointments and add it to my 'errand list'...

which is why (like emmie), regulars are the key to my hobby experience - nothing beats feeling like a little sumpin sumpin and knowing there is a regular provider of mine I can call to scratch that itch du jour...

and many thanks to you ladies who help me with that short term notice issue of mine - you are the best!!

I have a crazy schedule, but if possible I try to give at least a 24 hour notice. I hate to try and schedule something to far in advance only to have to cancel due to my schedule. The downside is that that if I wait to long to schedule with someone, they may already have appointments and I have missed my opportunity to see the person I am interested in. Bottom line is give as much notice as possible. Catch 22.

I always schedule at least 48 hours in advance, and if I'm going out of town I usually know 3-4 weeks ahead of time. I do my research and attempt to get verified and a meet set up at least a week out. Works very well for me.

I prefer short notice over advance notice lol

I prefer short notice over advance notice lol Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

Why is your green light never on? I feel creepy about calling if the person is not expecting my call. Or rather, i pm to confirm that i'm calling.

Why is your green light never on? I feel creepy about calling if the person is not expecting my call. Or rather, i pm to confirm that i'm calling. Originally Posted by new2thescene

Well hun, most of you guys are AWESOME but i have had some men over the years send me extremely rude messages if they see that I am "online" and dont respond to their PM within 5 mins. I stay logged in on my phone, so it looks like im online even when im not. Some will send 4, 5 or 6 messages in a 20 minute period asking why im ignoring them when I am not. Easiest solution? Turn off the light lol! Its working quite well!

I prefer advance notice for evenings, let's say 4-24 hrs notice.. because of family. During the day short notice can work, like at least 30 min.

Why is your green light never on? Originally Posted by new2thescene

It is possible she put her profile in "Invisible Mode" through the User CP.

I prefer providers give me notice......showing up at my door uannounced is getting old....
But hey thats the story of my hobby life

I also prefer short notice as I can be a little ditzy sometimes and can sometimes forget if you try to plan too far in advance (more than a couple days).

In conclusion -

Every provider has different preferences as to how much notice they want or expect.

From my experience, if you know of a provider you are interested in, ask if you can be screened in advance. It helps with setting up short notice appointments in the future.

Too little is shorter than I clearly listed on whatever ad or profile you're responding to. If you have not been screened more notice the better AND it needs to be done before I'll even agree to anything. If you've already been screened I need at least 2hrs notice. So...2hrs after screening is my short notice which is why I actually highly encourage pre-screening (jic you aren't often able to book with a huge amount of notice). Too far ahead for me is more than 2 months... i've found (for me) that if they book 2 months or more ahead of time they rarely stick.

I personally like some notice before meeting a new client. However, I LOVE seeing my regular clients on the spur of the moment. I'm sorry you're not having any luck!! Gals, this gent is AWESOME I can personally vouch for that!! Originally Posted by Emmie

Emma said it all. I prefer at least 48 hours notice on a newer client, however once I get to know my gentleman caller last minute is always welcome. I am not beyond messaging a favored gentleman when that overwhelming insatiable mood comes calling either.

On a side note: Emma your new pictures are stunning, completely breathtaking.