Masterbation during a session

FirePhoenix's Avatar
What are your thoughts on it? As a provider I actually do it a lot during 2 types of sessions. 1) with a new client that's still very nervous 2) witg someone that can have trouble cumming for various reasons. Knowing that I am being watched and then having my tits rubber on, is fucking really hot to me. Sometimes just watching a guy finish off builds up a type of anticipation inside of that's hard to explain but its fun. So providers and hobbyist do you likr a show and why?
HUMP!'s Avatar
  • HUMP!
  • 10-24-2015, 07:06 PM
Fun & Pleasure, being the names of the game, as long as all parties are cool with it, should be embraced. Watching herself ramp up and get off, yes, a wonderful thing, just like I hope she's supportive if that's how I need to finish.
I love watching a women run a vib or dildo in and out of her pussy or ass while I JO my cock.......and if she is not into CIM, then I will shoot my load all over her tits.
jaydalee's Avatar
Playing with a toy or masturbating while the other person watches or joins in is always a hot time.
I do it often
OMG....there are some days when I just have to do "it" and pray the client is OK with it.
TravelingGentleman's Avatar
From a male perspective, a woman who is touching herself in front of me is signifying that she's turned on - and since I'm in the immediate vicinity, she's indicating (or just has good IOP skills) that she's turned on by me....which then turns me on, which heightens the mood.

I've always encouraged my partners to touch themselves, or to rub their clitoris while we're having intercourse, or anything that will heighten their pleasure.
I love the tension that builds up with seeing how long my partner can go with just watching me play with myself before being compelled to get in on the fun.
bbug's Avatar
  • bbug
  • 10-26-2015, 06:07 PM
Yes, play with yourself all you want
Heavyiron999's Avatar
That's totally hot. I love women who can mastubate in front of me, it gets me so hard!
~Ynot~'s Avatar
From my point of view I love to watch the lady stimulate herself. It lets me know that she is turned on. It excites me and makes for an even hotter session as well as a more intense orgasm for both of us which is the utimate goal IMO. Nothing better than a seesion where we both collapse exausted from an intense orgasm leaving us both breathless.
skeeter's Avatar
I think it's exceptionally sensuous ... She knows herself and what feels best to her better than anyone....
Then to watch her build to an orgasm is so erotic.... Then after she relaxes for a minute I get to clean her
breastfan's Avatar
Watching a woman play with herself and maturbate is such a turn on. Especially having eye to eye contact while she arches her body with soft moans of pleasure.
Man i'm getting excited while writing this....
I love watching a man stroke his dick. I don't think that there is anything sexier, well except watching him climax!

I love to touch myself as well, but sometimes feel hesitant, because I do not want the gentleman in question to think that he isn't doing enough for me. After reading this thread, I will no longer hesitate.
inspector farquar's Avatar
There's a scene in last week's episode of Fargo (Season 2, Episode 4: Fear and Trembling) where the Kitchen Brothers are in a room waiting, each one playing solitaire. I thought the metaphor of the scene beautiful, but I also thought, "Why aren't they playing gin rummy, or some such game, together?"

I don't understand solitaire for two, and never have. Based on the answers in this thread, that puts me squarely in the minority. Maybe someone would be kind enough to explain to me why her hands (or mouth) should be on her lady parts and not on my man parts, and ditto for how my hands (or mouth) ought be employed?
SweetDulce's Avatar
I luv watching a man masturbation, mutual masturbation is Great foreplay!