Thinking of Retiring

Did a calculation today about how much I had spent in the hobby and could not believe the number. A lot of the women on here sound like more drama then what I need in my life. They all seem so cold and impersonal now. I guess it is a business and you must treat it that way. The few that kept me really excited are either retired or moved on. No matter how large of a bank account you have being lonely is still just fucked up.

Wow. I get the money part but other than that, I'm still having a blast. But there have been times when I (briefly) thought about walking away. Give it a little time and maybe it will pass like mine always have.

I'm sorry you feel Tht way sweetie. I dont think all of us providers are as cold and as impersonal as u think. But, if ur interested, I for one would love the chance to change ur opinion sometime and Show u just how warm I can be

I think it's weird how providers don't make it personal. Sex is an intimate thing and no matter who you are, if we are having sex then there has to be some intimacy level. I keep things real by thinking of my clients as friends. I look at them and find the attractive qualities and allow myself to be aroused by them. Money won't even be on my mind. I'll be too focus on them to worry. I'll be turned on and ready to please.

I think it's weird how providers don't make it personal. Sex is an intimate thing and no matter who you are, if we are having sex then there has to be some intimacy level. I keep things real by thinking of my clients as friends. I look at them and find the attractive qualities and allow myself to be aroused by them. Money won't even be on my mind. I'll be too focus on them to worry. I'll be turned on and ready to please. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

I totally agree with you! Unfortunately some providers have a much different mentality than you. To some it's all about the money and act like it's not enough. I have in the past showed up to see a provider and the mood was just not there. I understand that there has to be some attraction to get the juices flowing! lol

I'm sorry you feel Tht way sweetie. I dont think all of us providers are as cold and as impersonal as u think. But, if ur interested, I for one would love the chance to change ur opinion sometime and Show u just how warm I can be Originally Posted by SerenityXX

Serenity! I am thinking of retiring too !! Maybe you could change my mind?? lol

Serenity! I am thinking of retiring too !! Maybe you could change my mind?? lol Originally Posted by cluefinder

I can definitely change ur mind. Just tell me when and I will take very good care of u and any of those retirement plans u might have

I think it's weird how providers don't make it personal. Sex is an intimate thing and no matter who you are, if we are having sex then there has to be some intimacy level. I keep things real by thinking of my clients as friends. I look at them and find the attractive qualities and allow myself to be aroused by them. Money won't even be on my mind. I'll be too focus on them to worry. I'll be turned on and ready to please. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

There was provider no longer here that I spent a lot of time with and spent a lot of money on other than for appointments. In fact she could have asked for whatever she wanted because we had gotten that close. Then she started hanging out with this other provider and changed so I let her go. The time that I did see her after that it was strictly business. I am not saying that we started a love connection or anything like that but it was more of a friendship and I didn't mind helping her when she needed it. We all need help sometimes and I would not have gotten to where I did without mentors. The only thing that I am looking for is someone who is either a genuine good person or very good actress. Some of these ladies are by the numbers. Its like a porn film its step by step then next.

i always think of retiring.
the other head always vetoes

I developed feelings for one provider like no other..I didn't really care to be with anyone but her,but I one day realised how much she really hated me.lol.after that I started having fun.to big of an adventure for me to quit.sometimes a hassle,but the hobby overall is way better than being bored to death.

I developed feelings for one provider like no other..I didn't really care to be with anyone but her,but I one day realised how much she really hated me.lol.after that I started having fun.to big of an adventure for me to quit.sometimes a hassle,but the hobby overall is way better than being bored to death. Originally Posted by peter north77

Hey, you got to go with something. If you go today you don't have to worry about tomorrow.

the truth shall set you free
eh, mr north?

Young bull and old bull standing on the hill above a valley of cows. Young bull says lets run down there a fuck one them the old bull says lets walk down there and fuck them all.

It comes down to what you are looking for in the hobby. Some things you can find here, others, not so much or likely, not at all. It can be complicated sometimes to know where the lines are in this most personal of businesses. I guess I was lucky to meet an experienced provider early on who gently taught me where the lines were as I was trying to figure it out. We remain friends and hobby lovers, communicating often even if we have not seen each other in a while. But at the end of the day, I want to return unencumbered to my real life and allow her to do the same in return. That same idea has served me well with all of the fine ladies I've met here. Do I have feelings for them? Oh hell yeah! I sincerely want them to be happy and well. Nothing wrong with that. But beyond that is problematic. Perhaps the OP is looking for too much here.

When in doubt, read my sig lines. Or better yet, listen to the song.

I feel the same as the op. Not retiring but have definitely slowed down from years past. The ladies I have seen more than once have all either relocated or retired plus the fact that my hobby phone won't turn on....stupid go phone.........