More than meets the eye

While physical appearance is very nice, I think that sexuality and especially sensuality are exuded much more through the mind, the attitude, the adventurous fun-loving life-living personality, the passion and the self confidence of a woman who's inside beauty multiplies her outside beauty ten-fold. Any thoughts?

nope, not in 30 minutes. i just hope she can get me off.

Actually I agree with you nodrama. The good ones provide a lot of sensuality that shows the minute you walk in the room. It is why they can get you off in 10 minutes unless you hold them back. Of course they often sense you are close and change to tease you more.

The wonderful illusions of this lifestyle:

IOP = Illusion of Passion - when it's done well, I don't wonder whether she enjoyed it or not.

IOH = Illusion of Humor - she laughs at my jokes which makes it seem like we are more connected.

IOE = Illusion of Engagement - she listens attentively, maintains eye contact and doesn't multitask before or after the BCD which makes it seem like her mind is with me as well as her body...

IOA = Illusion of Acceptance - she refrains from judgement regarding looks, performance, real-life circumstances, etc.

IOLV = Illusion of Low Volume - i don't want to have things remind me of how many other guys are seeing her too.

IOI = Illusion of Independence - its very likely that someone other than the provider is going to benefit from the donation. this illusion requires discretion on the providers part: no visible driver, no brand tats and no variety of size 12 nike's lined up along the wall...

While physical appearance is very nice, I think that sexuality and especially sensuality are exuded much more through the mind, the attitude, the adventurous fun-loving life-living personality, the passion and the self confidence of a woman who's inside beauty multiplies her outside beauty ten-fold. Any thoughts? Originally Posted by Nodramaguy

You are off to a good start if you really believe this, and this attitude will guarantee years of wonderful sessions.

The true professionals not only engage your body, they engage your mind. Those ladies who can respond to you while building and sustaining the fantasy are my favorites.


"A man does not insist on physical beauty in a woman who builds up his morale. After a while he realizes that she is beautiful...he just hadn't noticed it at first".

Robert Heinlein. Time Enough For Love.

i just hate seeing a pile of used condoms in the trash. but if I am done who cares... so much for the illusion...

i just hate seeing a pile of used condoms in the trash. but if I am done who cares... so much for the illusion... Originally Posted by 12blue4u

Never look in the trash......that was your first mistake.

The illusion is partly your responsibility.

I'm of the belief that sexuality and sensuality are as much, or more a part of the mind as the body, and are dependent upon one another. It is as satisfying to give as it is to receive (although that may not always happen), and mutual pleasure happens more often when both parties can relax, have fun, communicate and establish mutual respect. That probably is more common with the experienced, established ladies you have seen on a regular basis. True, it's just business, but there's no reason it can't be "a pleasure doing business"....

Always the sweet talker Blue.

Sensuality is best when it comes from both parties. I'm not a fan of one way streets. >sweet smile <

Thanks Elena it's nice know you are keeping up with news.


remember the difference between illusion and delusion is a whole bunch of letters or just a D if you are a bad speller.

That's gross for one, there shouldn't be any clue that anyone else was in the room, that's a girl that is just, well I don't know Lol
Flush every thing, clean everything, including your cookie
Straighten out bed, shower, wash hands, brush your chompers, redo make up, take a breather for an hour or two before you allow another friend come visit. A girl s should take pride in the hotel room she's in just like she would her house, a trash full of used condoms in the garbage just shows no respect for her self or other clients.

i just hate seeing a pile of used condoms in the trash. but if I am done who cares... so much for the illusion... Originally Posted by 12blue4u

I love cuddling, kissing, running my fingers and nails through your hair or rubbing on a bald head
I like to talk and conversate a little, laugh, joke around and shoot the shit a little, makes it easier to connect and have a great time...
Some people how ever like porn video sessions, which I'm all for also, but the only connection there that's gonna happen is sweat and body connection Lol which is always fun also.