That wasn't a cancellation. A cancellation is when you call prior to arriving at the in call and actually cancel your appointment. Not getting your address, showing up and then he flakes out. It's a pretty scary feeling for the girl. Many things go through our head as to why he would get to your location or get your address and then bail out? Now he knows where you live, where you lay your head... (stalker, serial killer, freak, weak ass bitch)etc.. What are his intentions behind that it? It is an alert and very worthy. It may not endanger a member of "your" community, but it definitely endangers the members of "our" community. I am fully aware of the differences between the two communities unfortunately.
Originally Posted by BBW Katrina
At the top of this forum, it states: "Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material." That's the standard for whether a given fact situation is alert-worthy. The same standard is used for both hobbyists and providers.
Adrienne states: "KingKunta27 contacted me today for an appointment at 3:00PM. Arrived to my incall 30 minutes late and had the audacity to waste my time by showing up and bailing out on the appointment without any apology or compensation for my time." There is nothing -- NOTHING -- in that statement showing a danger to anyone.
Katrina, you attempt to change the standard for an alert to the following:
"It's a pretty scary feeling for the girl. Many things go through our head as to why he would get to your location or get your address and then bail out? Now he knows where you live, where you lay your head... (stalker, serial killer, freak, weak ass bitch)etc.. What are his intentions behind that it?"
Of course, the OP didn't write any of those things. You speculate about the thoughts the OP had in her head, based on nothing that she wrote, and without the OP having stated any facts to show danger.
Rather than making this the baseless speculation forum, I think we should keep it the alerts forum, and limit the posts here to those about danger.
btw, despite you implication to the contrary, I consider myself a member of a community made up of both providers and hobbyists, and I have been on this board and ASPD before for more than 20 years keeping both providers and hobbyists out of Barney Fife's clutches. You?