Okay ladies and gentalmen,
I just saw the movie Bridesmaids and was fascinated with the intro scene. Jon Hamm and Kristen Wiig are totally going at it in multiple positions. You know the scene. It's pretty funny, but a bummer in a way. She asks him to slow down, he does, she starts to get into it, but only for a few seconds because he speeds up again. She's not enjoying. Here's a link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKao7DHxUQE
I prefer slow mostly with a crescendo to a medium hard tempo.
How important is the right humping tempo for you? Is everyone way different? Vote or say something about now.
In reference to the movie Bridesmaids intro scene, my curiosity was sparked from the way the guy was just not paying attention the her responses. I am forever developing my ability to tune into that tingling sensation she feels and follow it best I can without blowing my top too soon. You know what I'm talking about right? That wave that she catches, then you catch it in harmony with her and you try to surf it all the way to the shore line until the white caps are crashing in on the surf! That's what I shoot for.