When Harry meet Sally

I'm old enough to remember the memorable 1989 film, When Harry meet Sally. While many of my favorite providers were probably to young to see the film, it stands out as one of the earliest attemps by Hollywood to address the humor and subtlety of relationships, romance and sex. The scene in Katz's Deli, when Rob Reiner's mother witnesses Meg Ryan delivering the most convincing "fake orgasm" prior to Hally Berry's scene in Monsters Ball; still makes me laugh to this day. Watching her look, and then being approached by the waitress with the obvious question of "What would you like to have?" To which she replies, "I'll have what she's having"......

Without "outing" anyone, or hurting anyone's feeling's, I would like to initiate a discussion on "Fake orgasms", for providers, is there a method, a timelimit or view on the subject, and for clients, do we care, can we tell, and does it matter. After all, in the pay for play world of Hobbyists, what are we really paying for.........

if i was to guess from real life observations in a 15 year survey


the majority hooks achieve real orgasm from

1. their girl friend

and or

2. the abusive bf or baby daddy

its not really scientific though

passive observations because I'm usually better at blindsiding convo

then giving orgasms

pretty much

lost down there so

try to distract from my short comings


and baffle them with buhlshit so they may not realize it



or just pull an overnight out of my bags of tricks and sleep through most of it

just make an effort


head down there and nose around abit


not half hearted but an honest attempt i think would be good

just make an effort


head down there and nose around abit


not half hearted but an honest attempt i think would be good Originally Posted by JONBALLS

Lmfao..............hey what ever works man I hear you...............lol

I eat because I like the food, not to please the cook!

When I'm having an orgasm my grinding slows waaaaaay down. I then do a rhythmic combo of breathing, moaning and riding. I can fake an orgasm and most can't tell but it's nothing the boys will brag about

Very nice Jenna, that is hot!

Overall, I am pretty shitty at telling if they came.

I am but dense, Jenna would have to whack a mole my head if she came, and wanted me to stop after cumming.

When I'm having an orgasm my grinding slows waaaaaay down. I then do a rhythmic combo of breathing, moaning and riding. I can fake an orgasm and most can't tell but it's nothing the boys will brag about Originally Posted by JennaJones

Ha ... now we know how good/lousy we are

I've had an atf admit occasions she was faking. I think I now see the difference between real and fake although I couldn't tell initially. At the time it didn't matter, she's a good actress. I always say, it doesn't matter as long as I believe in the moment.

I'm old enough to remember the memorable 1989 film, When Harry meet Sally. While many of my favorite providers were probably to young to see the film, it stands out as one of the earliest attemps by Hollywood to address the humor and subtlety of relationships, romance and sex. The scene in Katz's Deli, when Rob Reiner's mother witnesses Meg Ryan delivering the most convincing "fake orgasm" prior to Hally Berry's scene in Monsters Ball; still makes me laugh to this day. Watching her look, and then being approached by the waitress with the obvious question of "What would you like to have?" To which she replies, "I'll have what she's having"......

Without "outing" anyone, or hurting anyone's feeling's, I would like to initiate a discussion on "Fake orgasms", for providers, is there a method, a timelimit or view on the subject, and for clients, do we care, can we tell, and does it matter. After all, in the pay for play world of Hobbyists, what are we really paying for......... Originally Posted by Buzzword

If you think When Harry Met Sally is one of Hollywood's earliest attempts to address the humor or subtlety of relationships, you must be too young to remember the movie. Hollywood has been aroung quite awhile and they touched upon the subtlety of romance a few thousand times long before Bill Crystal knew what an erection was for.

Aside from that rambling, I commend your nice attempt at a conversational thread. Ive faked orgasms to get the deed over and i don't believe any words a woman says, or anyone for that matter, but especially not a woman being paid for companionship. That makes it moot, but if they pretend for me i dont interrupt.

I've had an atf admit occasions she was faking. I think I now see the difference between real and fake although I couldn't tell initially. At the time it didn't matter, she's a good actress. I always say, it doesn't matter as long as I believe in the moment. Originally Posted by trojantide

I don't like faking it, but it drive me nuts when they hide it.

Yeah...... I hate when that happens.....

I don't like faking it, but it drive me nuts when they hide it. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I don't mind that. I think it's pretty funny. They're probably having more orgasms with clients than they do with their bf's/pimps.

I cum with clients all the time. I rarely feel the need to fake it. The only times I've ever faked it have been when I had a partner who was overly focused on me cumming a certain amount of times -- when it wasn't happening I just faked it to make them happy. It's probably been over a year and a half since that has happened.