Body Type

So, a potential client tells me he's not into "big girls." I tell him I'm not a big girl. I just have curves: 44DDD-36-52, but it's his loss. Se la vie, yet I keep hearing this. What makes a lady a "big girl?" I honestly don't think I qualify. What say you, community?

So, a potential client tells me he's not into "big girls." I tell him I'm not a big girl. I just have curves: 44DDD-36-52, but it's his loss. Se la vie, yet I keep hearing this. What makes a lady a "big girl?" I honestly don't think I qualify. What say you, community? Originally Posted by Sexikitten

Why in the FUCK would a guy that doesn't like "big girls" contact a "big girl" in the first place? That guy must be an idiot.

You keep hearing this? Hearing what? That you're "big"? There's always going to be assholes and people that may not like bigger girls. But screw them. BELIEVE ME, there are tons of guys who like "bigger girls".

A huge turn-on for me is when a woman has confidence in how she looks. Whether she's big or small. Don't worry if you're big or not. To some people you are and to some people you are not. It only matters what you think and how you act about it.

Embrace who you are and how you look, honey.

An objective measure is body mass index.

Normal weight BMI is 18.5 - 25
Obese is over 30

If you Google it, there's lots of BMI calculators on the web.
All you need is your weight and your height.

Note that very muscular, athletic persons may appear to be overweight, but are not.

Other than that, beautiful women women come in all sizes and shapes. And personality and attitude matters just as much.

My $0.02

...Other than that, beautiful women women come in all sizes and shapes. And personality and attitude matters just as much. Originally Posted by myren1900

Absolutely!

I'm also curious to know how he became a "potential client" only to turn around and pick on your body. Sexikitten, it sounds like he was being a meanie. Either way, there are more than enough folks out there who appreciate curvy and plus size ladies.

I embrace my size. I am beautiful. A fashionable lady when called for, and a Cougar when I choose to be..lol Size is determined by society and judged by many.. But I say whether you are petite, curvy, sm. bbw, ssbbw, ect. ROCK IT!! Own it girlfriend....

There are many guys who love plus size gals.. It is all in your attitude.

I have no problems getting a man's attention. And I mean that in a good and positive way.
I treat all men who come to see me as equal, no matter their size.
Girlfriend ya gotta rock it like ya own it...

And opinions are like assholes, everyone's got one.
M.M.

Your tits aren't big either?

Measurements 44DDD-36-52
Height 5' 2"
Weight 185lbs

There's no easy way to say this and I mean no offense, but this is far from just "curvy."

Basic height/weight charts list a 5' 2" person as normal between 104 to 135 lbs, overweight at 136 to 163 lbs and obese at 164 to 213 lbs. I'm willing to bet that the 185 number is also lower than the actual number.

I think most guys would consider you to be a big girl, regardless of your height.

You asked for an opinion, and the gentlemen here are being quite honest... I know my size, I also know my worth. I rock what was given to me by God.

I also know I am not for everybody, but I refuse to put myself in a box labeled "DOA" either.

I am a very vibrant woman with a very pleasant attitude. My suggestion to you, would be to take some flattering photos featuring your best attributes, if you have curves, show them off in a way that best describes your body.

Men like honesty, when it comes to deciding whether or not to pay a visit to a lady. Showcase needs to be accurate.

I am a bbw, and I own it. I also know what I need to change about myself, and only I can determine when that will happen...

Best of luck to ya' hun. Take heed to the advice given by others, but don't put too much stock in the people who try and belittle you. You have worth, you just need to see it, and let it shine for others to see...

M.M.

Melissa,

You look great and very sexy!

Thank you Myren1900!! You are a true Gentlemen.....I would totally rock your socks off for you any day of the week.

M.M.

So, a potential client tells me he's not into "big girls." I tell him I'm not a big girl. I just have curves: 44DDD-36-52, but it's his loss. Se la vie, yet I keep hearing this. What makes a lady a "big girl?" I honestly don't think I qualify. What say you, community? Originally Posted by Sexikitten

You are a big girl I don't even have to look at your showcase your avatar says it all.. Did he contact you or did you contact him ? Why would he contact a big girl if he doesn't like them smh fucking retard..

So what do you consider yourself THICK ? lmfao

What do you consider big ?


The pictures that automatically says hey Im a big girl is when you hide your stomach with a towel sheet or all your pictures of you are laying down....

Dorthy where have you been all my life.

BMI over 30 is obese

http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educ...MI/bmicalc.htm

Dorthy where have you been all my life. Originally Posted by Tigerbait929

Stuck in a Eccie Tree...

I contacted him. He didn't state he had a size preference. I've also had guys contact me and when I send them a current pic, I get the I'm not into big girls.

I don't consider myself a big girl. I wear a size 10/12.

I don't follow the bmi index bc it's inaccurate. I've actually had my bmi measures and I have 20% body fat. I work out and I used to be an athlete and than you, Dorothy. It's women like you and men like pornodave who make me curse.

I'm very confident in who I am and my size. I just find it funny and a bit sad.