Recomendations seem confusing

I'm not sure of why I sometimes see a yes recommendation and I have read a review that keeps telling me no and a will not repeat for good measure. Is it just me. Is a yes simply earned by being there and going through a few acronyms ( bbbj cfs ect) and not being ripped off? I am sure no one wants to hurt a ladies business but ??? really.!!
I think there is a difference between poor service and there not being a connection. I have seen ladies that I would not repeat with just because of "chemistry", but still gave a yes to.
I think there is a difference between poor service and there not being a connection. I have seen ladies that I would not repeat with just because of "chemistry", but still gave a yes to. Originally Posted by carguy1989
I agree with carguy.
I feel compelled to give a yes if services were rendered even though there is not connection, passion or chemistry.

A no for me is for : Bait and Switch, dangerous situation, services agreed upon and then not rendered, very rushed session and not getting the full time paid for, texting or taking phone calls excessively during a session, or outrageously bad service even if services where performed (this is subjective) etc. These are some of the examples for me.



Ros details should help a hobbyist make an informed decision on whether to see a provider or not. For those that don't have ros access they are on their own with limited info.
I usually try to state explicitly in the review why I won't repeat if I feel the provider is a dead end for me. That way people can read the review, understand that yes she may have delivered as promised, but there were other factors influencing my decision.
The recommendation is from the standpoint of the reviewer. The question I always ask myself is "would I repeat if I put myself in the shoes of the reviewer"?
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It's hard to say sometimes. Providers might be the best, have some amazing reviews, and highly recommended. But when she has that one off day, do you really want to put a no. I can't. Maybe we never clicked, she's not into what I'm into, there are just many circumstances that could be said. That's why the YMMV is there. I would day a no for a repeat, but not to recommend.