Eyes open or shut

Do you keep your eyes open or closed during sex?
Lights on or lights off?
I like to look into my lovers eyes, even when doing DATY, DATO, now that's a challenge.

I'm do both although most of the time eyes open.

I love to see everything, so I keep my eyes open except when kissing. Had an ex ask me why I kept my eyes open while I kissed her and I was like, hell I don't know! Lol! I like to see you I guess. She made me stop cause it weirded her out, so from that point on I kiss with my eyes closed. Everything else, I need to see, lol! But looking while DATY adds to turning me on so unless she requests not to, I'm looking!! :-D

Like the lights on.
I do remember one particular Provider I asked to look me in the eyes when I came. One of the best orgasms of my life.

Eyes open, lights dim (I'm shy).

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I love to see everything, so I keep my eyes open except when kissing. Had an ex ask me why I kept my eyes open while I kissed her and I was like, hell I don't know! Lol! I like to see you I guess. She made me stop cause it weirded her out, so from that point on I kiss with my eyes closed. Everything else, I need to see, lol! But looking while DATY adds to turning me on so unless she requests not to, I'm looking!! :-D Originally Posted by moebeedick

That's funny..
I pretty much do both..But, to keep your eyes open is awesome. The lights need to be dim. It sets a better mood for myself. And..will get the best of me!

I want her eyes shut... with duct tape... and a gag.

I know I'm ugly. I don't need her to be constantly shocked and bitch about it too.

I usually have my eyes open because I like to watch. If my eyes are closed, then I'm fucking her but picturing someone else in my mind...LOL

prefer eyes open, staring at each other. lights on.


could be just the way I look, but seems most providers prefer lights off or dim.
understand if provider wishes to not see or remember experience, but looking at each other is so much more erotic.

thanks to all providers that do keep eyes open.

Accuse me of having a fragile ego, but when she opens the incall door to let me in, I prefer that her eyes are open.

Actually, I prefer her eyes rolled back in her head...

Actually, I prefer her eyes rolled back in her head... Originally Posted by OldYeller

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Actually, I prefer her eyes rolled back in her head... Originally Posted by OldYeller

I do see the bottoms of their eyes quite a bit.

If the lights are on, I would find it counter-intuitive to close my eyes, therefore if the lights are out and it's dark, eyes closed (since I can't see anything anyway).

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