What makes an ATF

What qualities or attributes make your ATF? Is it looks, personality, skills or other things that cinch the deal for you?

Emmie

What qualities or attributes make your ATF?
Is it looks, personality, skills or other things that cinch the deal for you? Originally Posted by Emmie

Ahh, my Captain, what an excellent question.
Assuming that a good set of skills is required(without which there would not ba a repeat visit):
Mostly personality, with a heavy dash of humor (just a fav thing for me), with that personality also being able to present the non hobby aspects of gfe (decent convo, a bit of flirt, etc.)
I would also think that an atf label would only apply with a repeat/regular client situation.
Frankly, how could a gal be a guy's atf, if he doesn't come back for more?
Last, I've intentionally left out comments related to what some might consider to be additional benefits of a repeat client relationship even though perhaps part of an atf relationship.

There's probably a different answer from every guy on here. For me it's all of the above. But probably the most important is me walking out believing she enjoyed her time as much as I did. Chemistry, at least the illusion of it, is key.

The illusion she is happy to see you, and you are one of her faves. Giving a complement now and then.

Great question!

For me, it's a combination of ...

* great sex, illusion of passion, her having orgasms or being really good at faking them
* great personality, friendly, eager to see me and chat
* the two of us clicking very well, or having chemistry as FrankieP said
* willing to do all of the things on MY desired menu, including FIV, DATY, BBBJ, LFK/DFK
* very appealing to me physically
* compliments me on occasion
* sends me a text every now and then just to say hello
* reasonable rates

I've only seen you once Emmie, but you've got ATF potential so I hope our paths cross again.

Great question!

For me, it's a combination of ...

* great sex, illusion of passion, her having orgasms or being really good at faking them
* great personality, friendly, eager to see me and chat
* the two of us clicking very well, or having chemistry as FrankieP said
* willing to do all of the things on MY desired menu, including FIV, DATY, BBBJ, LFK/DFK
* very appealing to me physically
* compliments me on occasion
* sends me a text every now and then just to say hello
* reasonable rates

I've only seen you once Emmie, but you've got ATF potential so I hope our paths cross again. Originally Posted by RocketSurgeon

I agree with that statement

An ATF is not the same thing as my favorite "regular" provider.... rockets list would be my wish list for a favorite "regular" girl. ..plus easy to schedule. ..even with short notice... and having Quick visits and half hour appts available...and a local girl. To me, an ATF is more about a great sexual experience..maybe even at a higher price than i can "regularly" spend, or even if difficult to schedule or even a traveling girl. A favorite regular is more important to me than an ATF. Also...no stinky cigarette smell...that is a deal breaker.

This is a great list, keep them coming!! ������

Originally Posted by Emmie

What qualities or attributes make your ATF?
Is it looks, personality, skills or other things that cinch the deal for you?

1. .....

2. good set of skills is required.....
3. Mostly personality,...
4. humor .....
5. decent convo....
6. flirt, etc.) Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

We have a list started; all of these things are good, but let us just go to the root of female attractiveness to men.

Most guys can see through the sex with out feelings, conversations with no feelings, etc.

I tried to find who said it, but no luck, that the most attractive thing about a woman to a guy is if she is interested in him.

JR

I found this. You might like it.

http://www.eroticmonkey.com/blog/wha...turn-client-57

"What Makes You A Return Client
An internal survey made by the escorting website TER revealed that about a third of hobbyists are regulars to one escort. To be more precise, they are seeing the same provider 4 times and more. Only 23% of the men on the site who answered the question said they don’t visit the same escort twice, while 43% meet with the same provider 2 or 3 times.

With as much as 3 out of 10 hobbyists being loyal to the same escort or escorts, it’s interesting to discuss what this choice entails, and why it is preferable for so many. The first sensible explanation is that if you find a hot babe who pleases you, there is no reason to seek out another provider and risk having a less satisfying experience. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, sure. But there must be other, more fascinating factors that weigh in the decision to keep seeing the same provider over and over again.

It’s about trust
Granted, only part of the sessions with providers are long enough to imply a lot of talking, but unless it’s a quickie, chances are there will be some personal relation forming between you and a provider.

One popular opinion in the online discussions about what people get from using escorting services is that people enjoy the connection as much as the sex. Although it’s definitely not universal, let’s face it, we’re all humans and trust is one of the most essential feelings in human relations. Add sexual cravings to that, and you have a great recipe to enjoy having fun with an escort over and over again."

JR

This has been a good conversation so far, I'm intrigued. I have limited experience but I don't think an ATF would be hugely different from someone you'd like in your life in the RW. Important for me:
- Trust
- Humor
- Thoughtfulness

And yeah, attraction and great sex - all that is important but I think that's somewhat of a result, not a cause.

the most attractive thing about a woman to a guy is if she is interested in him. Originally Posted by JRLawrence

I agree with this 100%. If the lady makes me think she is super excited to be with me, that she genuinely likes having me there, that she enjoys our interactions and wants me to return, I will.

The ladies who welcome me nicely, sit and chat for a bit before saying "Shall we get started?", and then see me out the door are ones that I may enjoy seeing, but will never be an ATF.

I agree with this 100%. If the lady makes me think she is super excited to be with me, that she genuinely likes having me there, that she enjoys our interactions and wants me to return, I will.

The ladies who welcome me nicely, sit and chat for a bit before saying "Shall we get started?", and then see me out the door are ones that I may enjoy seeing, but will never be an ATF. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

I agree with this! I feel like this would be when you could tell who loves what they do, and whose doing this just to do this!

My ATF is:

Thoughtful
Consistent
Genuine
Funny
Kind

That's why I adore him.

I didn't know you knew me.........LOL