Okay, relating to this member here. I've emailed her a couple of times and I rarely see girls on backpage and it's been quite some times that I even do any of this. I told her I don't have any references and all the girls that I've seen before no longer exist or went off somewhere else. She instead ask more and more and demanded more so I just call it off.
Girls who expect too much and asking or all this references is totally unnecessary when the guy don't actually have one and you can't expect him to keep all o those contacts of those past girls in memories. A marry man wouldn't even dare do that and plus a guy with no references has to start off from somewhere right?
Originally Posted by reliableakura
First off, not a review, maybe co-ed at best.
But you basic premise is wrong. Every lady has her own tolerance for information to see an individual, it is pointless to complain. If you don't feel comfortable move on. You exist, therefore a lady should see you doesn't fly. I was screened by the specific lady in question and had no issues with the requested information (information requested for those without references) and was able to see her. I have provided essentially the same information to others and it was deemed insufficient. I didn't complain or bemoan the 'injustice'.
As a married man, you aren't going to assist any lady if they get in legal trouble or pay their legal bills and fees, so they have ever right to set the own comfort level of screening. It would be like trying to tell any store where you write a check that it is "unnecessary" for them to see your drivers license, they should just trust you. Good luck with that one. The ladies don't have an obligation to see every Tom, Dick and Harry who has an email account as their verification.