What do you base your provider judgements on?

bustybabygirl's Avatar
I am assuming that some of the top things that encourage someone to see a lady are overall appearance, price, location, reviews, menu. I am also going to assume that some of the primary deterrents are Staff Edit issues and stories of thievery. I am wondering about the other, smaller things that help you make your decisions on whether or not to see a girl and also on how much or how little respect you have for her.

Some examples...
  • cleanliness and level of incall -- from low-end to mid-range to upscale
  • a girl who keeps to herself versus a girl who is involved in a lot of drama
  • girl with a great body but bad face/hair/teeth
  • good TCB skills versus girls who are very difficult to get a hold of or who are likely to cancel/no-call no-show
  • girl who seems well written and educated versus girl who is more "simple"
  • classy versus trashy
  • professional photos versus low-quality selfies with messy backgrounds
  • GFE versus mechanical
  • someone who takes her time versus clock watcher
  • girls who never offer discounts or specials versus girls who do
  • girls who seem overly desperate or "thirsty" versus those who act like they're doing you a favor by seeing you, and all of those who fall between the two extremes
  • a girl who has extras such as water, wine, male toiletries at her incall versus girl who is more bare minimum

The list could go on and on but these are just a few that I thought of off the top of my head. So what among this list matters most and least to you? Feel free to add in your own ideas too.
In order of preference............remember this is PRIOR to meeting the provider........

1) First and foremost, a provider that has the capability to cater to my addictive fetish.
2) Body type
3) Their response time to first contact.
4) How their "tone" is during their first contact. Do they seem put off by any questions I may have. I am in the "hospitality" industry, and a providers personality at first blush is very big with me.
5) Donations in relation to time spent and services provided.

This "business" is a crap shoot. Fortunately, both parties here have this forum to use, much like people in my industry can use Trip Advisor, Yelp, or any other search engine. I try to get as much info out of reviews as I can. WAY too many people here use backpage to get a "quick fix" (read, cheap), and while I do feel bad about clients getting ripped off (either by services rendered or out-and-out thievery...and yes, it has happened to me MANY years ago when I was a MUCH more frequent client.....ahh the old days of the Allen Club), it shouldn't happen due to the overwhelming amount of reviewed providers here.
bustybabygirl's Avatar
Thanks for the response. Also lol @ "addictive fetish". Xoxo.
Thanks for the response. Also lol @ "addictive fetish". Xoxo. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
It IS an addiction.....and any slave would have to cater to my inducing wishes......
bustybabygirl's Avatar
Of course.
Plastic Man's Avatar
plastic man bases it ...on ...how much the funnel ...threADs
I go by how seductive they come accros in how they post, and how their page is managed.

I have pet peeves which i find disqualify a provider, such as Staff Edit issues, and if they have been know to accept bareback, and/or unattractive.

Fyi, i want a contrast to what i have at home, so if they remind me of my wife, no fucking way, lol.

Other guys like that shit though.
generalbob's Avatar
#1 RELIABILITY!!!!! Very hard for me to get hobby time. Nothing worse than the last minute blow off or being more than 15 minutes late.
#2 Real GFE. (Except nagging)Personality, kissing, BBBJ.
Clean and odor free. I always make sure I come to you that way or shower at your place. I prefer clean and fresh natural not the perfume cover up.
Not looking for model beauty, just don't be as ugly as me.
Body type is not as important as how you use it. Rather play with bigger girl who's into it than a mechanical spinner.
Pricing. I won't pay 300 because you look great, but will if you fuck great.
1. Chemistry
2. Honesty
Penis_Leerie's Avatar
BBG, you my think I am being a sarcastic wise ass but my answer is sincere. When I do this hobby thing, it is not for a sweet interaction with a hot lady pretending to like me. I'd still rather earn that than buy it. I hobby for depraved indifference and a little chance of some thrilling danger. I like to make arrangements at the last minute with ladies I don't know. Unfortunately my finances dictate I have to do some research. But pre-screening or a safe slut like Lee seems boring to me. Safety first is for chumps.
Plastic Man's Avatar
1. Chemistry
2. Honesty Originally Posted by cculvr69
the chemistry comes from payin ta ...fuck the funnel

...the ...honesty ...comes from the ...illegality of the transaction
Carlos Danger's Avatar
Thin
generalbob's Avatar
Thin Originally Posted by Carlos Danger
Thin and crispy or stuffed crust?
A girl who can be on time providers are absolutely horrible with time.
Frank Underwood's Avatar
No particular order here, but a gross incall with stiff sheets is no Bueno. Also if the pics are not even a close representation to who you're meeting .. I don't need professional model shots but pics a of a girl 50 lbs lighter than the one I'm seeing is very disappointing. Also, we all know it's business, but if the girl is looking at her phone and checking the clock and going through the motions, well that is shitty customer service.. If they don't enjoy the time, it's hard for me to