CL and BP are about it for ROC, as others just copy ads from BP
as for the other question
ahhhh let me guess, you let Paulie Girl explain the guidelines to ya didn't ya
errrr try this thread
Other Hobby Sites where its ok
#27 - ECCIE policy regarding the discussion of competing websites is intended to exhibit a straight-forward and simple approach. We do not disallow mention of other sites here at ECCIE, however we ask that you limit those discussions to the "Other Hobby Sites" thread located in the Member Suggestions and Feedback forum. This is the area that we have designated as being an appropriate outlet for these types of discussions. Posts of this nature made in other forums throughout the board will be merged into this location. If you find these types of posts in your local forums, please use the RTM function to report them to staff.
and
#8 - Misuse of our Private Messaging system will result in consequences. You are not to spam members using the PM system. You are not to send invitations to other sites using our PM system. You are not to harass others using our PM system.
so lets say you found a gal on another board, reviewed here with a link to her on that board. You can talk about her, but not that other board. shhhhhhh not in pm also, but can ask another member for hobby email and talk other boards by email
no you can't have any of my hobby emails at this time