Sugarbaby

Here is a question I'm wanting some opinion on a situation I have. I found a sugar baby and the question that bothers me is that she is a diamond! Very beautiful, sexy, intelligent and affectionate. When should I decide to decide to take the relationship to the next level with her? We have gone on one date just to get to know her or us? Suggestions?

What do you consider the next level? I should hope that you've already discussed what the "arrangement" entails/expectations. From there, I would say whatever terms negotiated begins once you've given her the first allowance. At least that's the way my past arrangements have worked..

If intimacy is expected, did you both agree to that or are you assuming that it's a given? You'd be surprised how many SBs love the idea of a "platonic daddy" so you should be unmistakably clear about what exactly you need..

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What do you consider the next level? I should hope that you've already discussed what the "arrangement" entails/expectations. From there, I would say whatever terms negotiated begins once you've given her the first allowance. At least that's the way my past arrangements have worked..

If intimacy is expected, did you both agree to that or are you assuming that it's a given? You'd be surprised how many SBs love the idea of a "platonic daddy" so you should be unmistakably clear about what exactly you need.. Originally Posted by ChanelCarvalho

Thanks for this information...

~ I grew up assuming, from what I saw and was told, you do not have sex with your Sugar Daddy, and didn't have any "arrangement" with, you didn't have to do anything but be sweet and be yourself, we can call it the "old school" version.

>> You spent time with a gentleman, became friends, talked regularly on the phone, wined, dined, try things each other enjoy, He starts to spoil you - He develops enough concern about you to help with your finances but isn't obligated - She enjoys his advice and company and made time to give him attention and affection but was never obligated to pay anything back. They become friends each other can turn to, feel support in times of need in exchange for a relief from boredom with a cutie/eye candy. Sex is optional, and usually screws things up. <<

Hope this may help, not sure if it is correct, I still think it probably all varies:

~ Since joining the hobby and the internet, I was schooled that there is a whole other version to the Sugar Daddy world where sex would be involved, but also optional.

>> I was told this by the friend who showed me "the ropes" for joining Eccie and Escorting: "With Escorting She makes the rules, sets the terms, and He accepts to proceed. With a Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy arrangement He sets the terms and conditions and She can accept or decline." <<

With both usually the exchange is time for assistance, gifts, being spoiled/money for time, but with the old school version it just kinda comes without saying or a whole discussion about it or drawing up a contract.

Arragements with sugar babies and hookers PAYING for it.

She's all that great stuff but who knows if she's just using you to boost her self confidence as a woman (dealing with a mature man).

She takes this "experience" in hopes to potentially connect with a slightly older, more adventurous, more acceptable, couple-selfie friendly type of guy later down the line and leave you high and dry with your heart in your hand.

Always keep this in mind until she actually and proudly introduces you to her people, posts a pic of the two of you on social media, or begs for your cum in her pussy during unprotected sex.

Anything short of that, just pretend she's one hell of an actress; don't catch feelings and enjoy the ride.

I think that now that you guys have met, and know you guys are attracted to each other. I would say sit down and discuss the terms and agreements. Should be transparent as possible to avoid confusion.

I used to have a sugar daddy and I believe that it is a mutual relationship without strings involved and drama.

all b/s; each party wants something knowing it's not "real" so come on, be real or be fake and carry on....

I had thought about being a SD and got pages of texts telling me not to do it..if you like the provider then see her as many times as your pocketbook can allow otherwise your just setting you self up to be hurt emotionally or financially and if your not diamond Jim you can't afford it..

A SB/SD relationship is one where there are no strings and everything is discussed and agreed to prior to the relationship. I know what I am supposed to do and vice versa. It is a business relationship and one with less risks in my opinion.

If you do it for love or get emotionally attached than you're doing it for the wrong reason. If you get hurt than it's your fault. It's like the song "she's a beauty" and the line "but don't fall in love"