What is GFE? Just kidding lol!!

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Was wondering how many here are married, in open relationships, or single? Has being one over the other made your hobbying or providing more or less difficult?

I am single and will not have any special person in my life while doing this. I find I don't have the time or desire to be in a relationship while being with other people, and I don't want to lie either. I want to devote my total body, heart, and mind to only one person someday...sort of saving myself lol.

How do you balance your real life with this? Has the hobby ever consumed you or made you numb to your SO because of all the fantasy involved here?

Thanks for being HONEST please....
Naomi4u's Avatar
LOL @ The title.

I think our sex life is much better because of the hobby.. lol. I
don't think I need to explain why. I also don't let this business affect
my personal life in anyway.
John Bull's Avatar
If we were honest, we wouldn't be in the hobby.
discreetgent's Avatar
Thanks for being HONEST please.... Originally Posted by London Rayne
Hey London, do you still believe in the Easter Bunny or the Tooth Fairy?
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  • WTF
  • 01-20-2011, 07:38 PM
Was wondering how many here are married, in open relationships, or single? Has being one over the other made your hobbying or providing more or less difficult? Originally Posted by London Rayne
I'm dating some poor girl, we fight, fuck and crack each other up at various times. If any one of those three things stop, then I would not have any problem hobbying, in fact she does not care if I play around every once in a while. She wants me to tell her if I do but I told her I can't call her if I decide to fuc another, it might screw up my mood/mojo.....cracked her up, said I had a good point. "Wait just a second and let me call my girlfriend and get permission to fuc you!'' So I'm not sure WTF the question was but thats my answer.



How do you balance your real life with this? Has the hobby ever consumed you or made you numb to your SO because of all the fantasy involved here?

.... Originally Posted by London Rayne
I have went four or five years streches without dating seriously, I doubt that would have happened by just wacking off!

So while it hasn't consumed me, it has made it easier to concetrate on other business while taking care of my weenie's needs. Not sure if that is a good or bad thing but I have been on the plus side of happy for the most part.
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I am single and always have been. Never really got into relationships but haven't never really tried. I enjoy meeting new ladies with no commitment at the end.

With the hobby it lets me be someone that I wouldn't be in real life. I split my real life from my hobby life just because my friends still think that paying for sex is wrong. Only if they knew.

Great minds do think alike London. I was actually going to start a topic on this tonight. Looks like I'm slow on the trigger again.
Happily married.
  • Paven
  • 01-20-2011, 08:40 PM
I'll be single as long as I live on Planet Chickenshit lol (also known as Planet Scared of Being Rejected) lol civvie men anyway.
shorty's Avatar
Sounds like we have something in common Paven!!
DFW5Traveler's Avatar
I'm single for now and JB, I'm honest about the hobby, I just keep my mouth shut unless asked a direct question.

Personally, I've met someone I care about and would like to see where we go from here. If it goes further, I'll step out of the hobby.
London Rayne's Avatar
Hey London, do you still believe in the Easter Bunny or the Tooth Fairy? Originally Posted by discreetgent
Yea Buttmunch I do...so there!

Hey Shorty, slow triggers are good at times.
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single probably will stay that way im sure ( i served my time lol )
London Rayne's Avatar
I want to be married again!! I loved being a wife. Cooking, cleaning, bjs on demand...it was great!! All 6 months of it!!
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^Damn. lol
I want to be married again!! I loved being a wife. Cooking, cleaning, bjs on demand...it was great!! All 6 months of it!! Originally Posted by London Rayne
You wanna go back to being Suzi Fucking Homemaker? Hehe