Why would they say that?!

I'm not really sure what is going on, but I have had several providers contact me recently and tell me that a gentleman they have seen or were planning to see mentioned knowing me or they stated that they had plans to see me soon, and I will have no idea who they are talking about! Some of these girls were calling with warnings about the clients, saying that if I didn't know them already I shouldn't meet with them at all because they were rude, or shorted them on money, or even tried to get rough with them. It is not one particular client involved either...it's been 3 different ones so far, from what I can tell. And no, I do not believe these ladies were trying to "monopolize the market" and keep all good clients to themselves! They are all either good friends of mine or well known providers I have spoken to many times in the past.

It seems these guys are using my name to somehow make these ladies feel more comfortable, I'm assuming. (and no, I don't think I'm "all that", but it's common knowledge that guys will mention a well-known provider in the area to make themselves seem more trustworthy or "well-traveled" in the hobby.) A lady new to the hobby and unsure of how to screen her clients may assume that if I trust them and know them then maybe they are ok to meet with. Dangerous assumption, that's all I can say!

Also, the owner of an agency here in town contacted me recently and told me that a girl was trying to get hired on there and was claiming to be MY DAUGHTER, of all things! Well, it just so happens that I have known the owner of this agency for a long, long time, and she knows that if this girl was truly my daughter then I would have given birth to her at age 12, which, I assure you, is not the case! (I was a young mother, but not that young! LOL)

I guess the point I'm trying to make is, screen, screen, screen, regardless of what a potential client tells you! If it FEELS wrong, or sounds fishy, it probably IS. I also wanted to remind the ladies to not get too comfortable or lax in their screening process, even seasoned providers get burned from time to time if they don't screen! NEVER let your guard down, as that is when you end up getting hurt or into some kind of trouble. Follow your gut instinct, too. No amount of money is worth your life. I'd rather be broke than dead, any day.

I've had girls contact me asking if I have seen some clients that were using me as a reference as well. I have never seen them. It worries me that someone will toss my name out as a reference and then do something horrible to the provider because she didn't take the time to send me an e-mail or call to verify.
I hope everyone knows that if you need me to verify someone for you I am more than willing to help keep us all as safe as possible.

ive had this same problem back in november. I had lots of call where the guys were ready with provider references, but I was never able to make contact with the providers. they kept using the same names and were very persistant, calling me 7-8 times per day for several days. i think they were hoping i would say, oh, sure, ive heard of her, cant reach her, but thats ok, i will be right there! I was very irritated that week, with the sudden repeated urgent calls from 3 differtant numbers, even after asking them to not call me again since I was unable to get any of the providers on the phone, they contineued to harrass me for about a week, so annoying! anyway, i dont even mention needing references in my ads now, seems to have solved the problem.

So you got some annoying phone calls and now you don't screen?

I think your right... By "dropping" your name they think that screening will be bypassed.

But Ladies, references should always be checked. Just because we may know a man, or have seen one, doesn't mean that we can recommend them.

Hi ladies just will put my two cents in well maybe a half cent just be safe I have lost many things because of money but have gain far more from just going to sleep that night. Love from Cheaper

@Stacy
Don't mind Lillianna. She never has anything nice to say.

yes, of course I still screen, i just dont mention it in my ad anymore. I always mention my rates, and i always state no texting. This also seems to encourage the wise guys who will text me and ask for my rates, i think there are certain types of people who get their kicks this way. anyway, I dont see new clients very often because I'm really not comfortable calling a provider i dont know. i only know and trust and couple providers, so even if they have references, its usually someone I dont know and I'm not comfortable with that. yes, lillianna does screen, she has called me and she was nice!

Stacy, please contact me anytime for a reference! I'm happy to help!

Kisses,
Staci

You think that's weird... a provider told me recently she had a client who said ECCIE pays him to go out and review ladies and he refused to pay her saying, "Somebody else is going to pay you but I'm not," claiming he's doing his job by seeing her.

Wow... some people really need a good slap in the head.

^^^^ got a guy claimed he was a photographer for EROS and wanted a 2hr session for barely the price of my "reg" half hour and he'd give me and extremely high scroe on TER. He got exposed needless to say....it's not even funny anymore the scams guys come up with to get free or cheap p8ssy.

and here i am trying to buy some and cant get a seller

No matter how many refs someone gives ,you have to research and contact the ladies they gave ! I google the email ,# , check their reviews + who reviewed them . Even on P411 I contact whoever ok'd ,just have to be safe !

I also, am here aways to verify...

You think that's weird... a provider told me recently she had a client who said ECCIE pays him to go out and review ladies and he refused to pay her saying, "Somebody else is going to pay you but I'm not," claiming he's doing his job by seeing her.

Wow... some people really need a good slap in the head. Originally Posted by FireSerpent

morons like that are why I collect up front, having been ripped off is why I count up front. if they don't have the correct donation or they don't want to pay upfront I tell them to leave.