I think what we need is more experienced members, clients and providers, to chime in. Wife and I are relative newbies. I am not saying replies received so far are not appreciated, they are. Need more opinions, ideas. Thanks to all who have shared, added, etc. I don't want anyone having a session ruined by an inconsiderate client or provider. Everybody have a great, safe weekend. Hobby on my friends.
Originally Posted by BabyBull13
I've had a session spoiled by an impatient client once. It was NOT his first time at my incall so he "assumed" he could just park in the lot, walk up to my unit and continuously KNOCK, TEXT, CALL, REPEAT, letting me know he "had arrived a bit early and was ready NOW."
Then when I didnt respond right away bc I was "tied up" he texted "Hello?" and "Are you there?" over and over.
Needless to say, I became annoyed BUT I did NOT let my client whom I was in session with feel the angry vibes coming off of me as I've been in the biz long enough to perfect poker face. (I won't ever let my clients feel awkward or rushed due to someone else's newbie syndrome.)
My second appointment was 35 mins early btw, and assumed I was just "hanging around" at my Pussy Palace WAITING on HIM because, well, what the fuck else would I be doing? :/
THEN, he was a bit "irritated" he had to wait in the parking lot while I showered and primped up.
I explained to him that unlike Walgreen's, my hours of operation vary depending on my daily schedule. That and the fact there is ONLY ONE of me and MANY of "him" so he was going to have to wait his turn to ride the ferris wheel just like every other client I allow into my world of hoe-dom.
Supply < demand when it comes to THE PROVIDER you make an appointment with. So, they must be punctual but never early and never "assume" the provider's life revolves around THEIR session. WE UNDERSTAND you make time for us and you have a busy schedule and whatnot. But so do we.
Cell phones should go on "vibrate," appointments should be set with enough time in between one another and NEVER "help yourself" to a provider's door and knock like a fuckin girl scout until she gives you the go ahead to head on up.
Hope that helps.
Nite <3