Hardcore Jitters

I am finally, after a ton of procrastinating, going to see a provider in SA. I am going to see either BP Affordable Red (a little crazy but hopefully worth it) or Chasity from BP. They both have reviews from reputible board members, but everytime I get ready to dial that phone I get crazy nervious and worried that maybe I missed something and they are robbs or LE. Sometimes I even worry that eccie is just a giant dragnet for LE to get people and no one is a real provider or hobbies...crazy right. Any advice on how to calm down and just get out there? thanks

Sounds like back in grade school, calling girls for the first time.
Just take a deep breath and dial, just a normal person on the other end. Most likely you're going to get their voicemail anyway, lol.
I find almost all the ladies from here I talk to are sweet and very easy to talk to and any nervousness fades away after a few seconds...
Good luck

I'd suggest a bourbon and coke...

I mix Bacardi and RC cola, works every time.

My advice for a first-time: get a cheap hobby phone, leave everything but the donation somewhere safe (don't take your wallet, or any form of real ID with you), and be ready to bail if they openly discuss money-for-services exchange - money is for time only. You can't be too careful, and you can't be afraid or embarrassed to walk out if they're not discreet or professional. Take a cue from the world of CEOs - always be ready to walk away from a bad deal. If they're not experienced or professional enough to manage the business side without endangering themselves or you, then don't deal with them.

I'd go with jpenderhof's advice. Think with the big head first. Then enjoy the playtime. Hobby phone is a must. Leave the donation in a place that the provider can readily see. Do your research.

I've always heard that hobby phone is a must - but i just have no idea how those work or what the best route is. anyone care to clarify on the best phone/service to get and costs. do these allow you to not attach your name/address to them? etc...

I've always heard that hobby phone is a must - but i just have no idea how those work or what the best route is. anyone care to clarify on the best phone/service to get and costs. do these allow you to not attach your name/address to them? etc... Originally Posted by doriaN

Usually you can go into any store (WalMart, Target etc) or cell retail store (AT&T, T-Mobile) and get yourself a prepaid SIM or a phone with a prepaid card.

If you have a phone that takes SIM cards you can usually get someone at the store to just sell you the SIM, activate a number on it and buy a prepaid card of some dollar amount. But usually you can haggle less by just buying a cheap prepaid phone from one big box retailers and pay as you go.

Couple of things to look for when you buy the cards and which provider to go with, $/min and how long the minutes are good for ie if you buy a card for 1000 min but they expire after 3 month or something along those lines.

More often then not you dont need to provide any address or name if you get a prepaid phone. Also there are a lot more options than AT&T and Tmobile I just used those as an example.