Cbj or bbbj?

I can tell you that I prefer bbbj and if you ask any anyone in the hobby it doesnt come without risk! I get it! But i would like to hear providers opinions on this. I have never caught anything from a bbbj. So whats the secret to not catching something and still getting or giving bbbj? Thoughts?

There is no secret here. Like you said, bbbj isnt without risk.

Now, I will say in your case, according to the medical STI sites, it is easier for you to pass along an STI to your female partner during BBBJ than it is for her to pass an STI to you.

Also according to the STI medical sites, STIs have a difficult time surviving in the mouth. But they do survive in the throat.

If you have a really short pecker, thats in your favor. If you cum super fast, also in your favor. But again, their is still risk. There is no website that will give you percentages.

I cant tell you the secret because idk what it is. but I can say that we all take that risk guys and girls. not only getting one but the giver takes that risk also! goes right along with daty and dato as well as bbbj. if we all do our part and make sure that were tested regularly. guys and gals then we are making sure that our sexual partners are safe from spreading anything from one another. in doing so we are helping keep our community safe by making sure that we don't spread anything to our sex partner and so on down the line!

imo anyone who plays in the hobby that knows they are infected with anything. well they should cease their activities until they get it cured if its curable. also be courteous if you do have something tell any of your recent partners so they can get tested for whatever it is. and if you have one that isn't curable you shouldn't play in the hobby at all period!

of course there is always the asshat that feels scorned because they became infected with whatever. and feel that they should spread it because they were burned. these people are not only worthless as human beings but should be imprisoned if they knowingly spread a deadly virus! death cannot come soon enough for people like that!

It has been my experience CBJ is an indicator the lady just doesn't like what she's doing! The "safety" thing is used to excuse her disdain. I am far, far away from a guy that gets off making anybody do something they don't want to do or like to do. As I told somebody a long time ago, I'd make a lousy play rapist. Don't even feel right spanking.

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There is no secret here. Like you said, bbbj isnt without risk.

Now, I will say in your case, according to the medical STI sites, it is easier for you to pass along an STI to your female partner during BBBJ than it is for her to pass an STI to you.

Also according to the STI medical sites, STIs have a difficult time surviving in the mouth. But they do survive in the throat.

If you have a really short pecker, thats in your favor. If you cum super fast, also in your favor. But again, their is still risk. There is no website that will give you percentages. Originally Posted by MrNyceGuy

The first class project in beginning Microbiology was to take a swab culture from inside of our own mouths and grow it in a petri dish. The dish was covered with different bacteria for everyone. We each picked out one colony, isolated it, and identified the bacteria as individual species.

Everyone had something different, and many had some very strange stuff. This is not the place to discuss what we found.

I did this experiment myself, so I think I differ with your statement concerning survival of bacteria in the mouth.

Brush your teeth, it helps with oral hygiene.

What do you think that film is on your teeth, sweets? Sorry, it is bacteria growing there.

JR

Every thing is a risk, you take millions of risks a day, all you can do is try to minimize the risk.
I personally prefer bbbj, I like the feeling of skin, sensitive spots are easier to hit and so on, covers make me feel like I'm gonna inhale and choke on the rubber, it hurts me throat, and the lube on it is not pleasant to taste, but if a client asks for it I will ablige and make sure he is happy with what he asked for.

JRL, its not my statement RJ, it comes from the medical STI sites. What it says is STIs have a difficult time surviving in the mouth. Of course, the mouth is the entry point but if the virus doesnt make its way and latch on in the throat, it cant survive and thrive in the mouth.

Anyone can read the Universities medical links on STIs. Thats where the majoritybof the research is done.

Every thing is a risk, you take millions of risks a day, all you can do is try to minimize the risk.
I personally prefer bbbj, I like the feeling of skin, sensitive spots are easier to hit and so on, covers make me feel like I'm gonna inhale and choke on the rubber, it hurts me throat, and the lube on it is not pleasant to taste, but if a client asks for it I will ablige and make sure he is happy with what he asked for. Originally Posted by shayla84

Ditto. Also, I'm allergic to latex and the dermal layer on the lips are much thinner than that of the vagina, thus increasing my chance of a reaction. (I ALWAYS use condoms during sex, just make sure I am kept wet.)

You might want to try the ones with less spermicide. I have to use a specific kind, there normal and cheap but not soaked with the shit. If I use the ones that are dropping with spermicide my my kitty is not a happy one and irritated.

Using covers or abstaining from sex are ways to mitigate the spreading of STIs. Just as in society at large, within the hobby, there is much misinformation regarding safer sex practices. And I think way too many people buy into the notion that using covers is unsexy. I personally wouldn't mind giving someone a CBJ if there were condoms out there that didn't taste and feel so weird in my mouth. Maybe in the future, with advances to condom technology, covered blow jobs could be more pleasurable for everyone involved.

BBBJ .I rally can't stand the rubber in my mouth as in the feel of it
but in the VJ it's fine .not sure why in the mouth why it feels so strange
to me ,,, but if your one who need's a CBJ i'm more then happy to make it work out for you ..

JRL, its not my statement RJ, it comes from the medical STI sites. What it says is STIs have a difficult time surviving in the mouth. Of course, the mouth is the entry point but if the virus doesnt make its way and latch on in the throat, it cant survive and thrive in the mouth.

Anyone can read the Universities medical links on STIs. Thats where the majoritybof the research is done. Originally Posted by MrNyceGuy

Yea, yea! Been there, done that back in my misspent youth.

A lot of stuff grows in the mouth, and in the gut. But it doesn't make us sick. That was my point. It was obvious you gone to a computer and looked it up like all the young kids that think they know something because they saw it on the computer. But, the more one reads the more one understands.

In my example, the organism I identified in my mouth had a name that included Gonoccus. Wow, I became concerned. The Professor told me to hold on, it was related but not the species that caused gonorrhea. He told me it was quite common to find such stuff in the mouth. That was the point of the experiment.

Indeed, the CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention) procedure allows for the reporting of only specific strains of bacteria after completion of specific tests that eliminate other strains. Just because there are a lot of defenses in the mouth does not mean that bacteria doesn't grow there, or that one will not find those strains that initiate disease.

Numerous bacteria strains will be found with every mouth culture - in everyone.

Doesn't your Dentist talk to you about brushing your teeth. My Dentist gives me a new tooth brush with every visit, three times a year.

Open up, what to your teeth look like?

Also, It doesn't hurt to brush your teeth after sex, and to brush our tongue too. At least that is what my Marine Corps Drill Instructor told us before we were allowed to leave booth camp for our first liberty. I often wondered about that, did he mean sex with a woman, or any sex?



Don't think I wanta think about that.

JR

It has been my experience CBJ is an indicator the lady just doesn't like what she's doing! The "safety" thing is used to excuse her disdain. I am far, far away from a guy that gets off making anybody do something they don't want to do or like to do. As I told somebody a long time ago, I'd make a lousy play rapist. Don't even feel right spanking.

That is all. I approve this message. Originally Posted by dumars

I ABSOLUTELY couldn't disagree with you more!! I love what I do!! But I have a little common sense and a bright future so excuse me for caring enough about myself to try to protect myself!! I don't mind the rubber in my mouth or the taste of the brand I buy, but I just don't feel comfortable opening up my menu to include Bbbj. From what I hear I'm so good at what I do they can't even tell they're wearing one! We ALL expose ourselves to a lot of potential risks by being in this hobby so if one little thing could prevent a potential STD then why not just do it and try to be safer?? I know some guys swear they just can't get off wearing a rubber but in my personal experience it's not really that big of a deal and it helps reduce some potential risks. Again, just because I try to reduce my risk factor doesn't mean I don't love what I do .
Just my two cents-

Oh and also I read a study that says it's better to NOT brush your teeth immediately after because the bristles in your tooth brush can open up the pores in your gums. I heard it's better to use mouth wash first and then brush

Thanks for the incite! The bottom line is we are here to have fun and not get something we cant wash off!

Would you rather be kissed by a provider who just gave a CBJ or BBBJ?