Earlier, a thread was started asking the guys what they wanted to see in provider ads. Some of the answers were predictable, but I think the exchange has been interesting so far.
Now, let's put the shoe on the other foot:
Ladies, what constitutes the perfect ISO or appointment request to you?
What would make you want to reply to one guy's ISO while ignoring another?
What's the difference between the appointment request that you consider worthy of a reply vs. the one that only deserves deletion?
One last thing: I made a point to single out Asian Ann, as I think the literacy and humor of her ads are worthy of praise. Are there guys whom you consider to be worthy of praise for their ISO style or appointment request style?
- Blue_eyed_shy_guy
- 03-25-2016, 12:15 AM
- SA Angel
- 03-25-2016, 01:29 AM
Below would be my ideal appointment request.
Hello (insert Provider),
I saw your (ad/posts) on (insert website) and would like to see you. (Insert compliment) I'm (insert general physical description). (Optional sharing of information to give a picture of personality) I would like to schedule an (incall/outcall) for (insert length of time) on (insert date) between (insert time range).
My references are (insert reference one with link to website or profile), (insert reference two with link to website or profile), and (insert reference three with link to website or profile). My phone number is (insert phone number). This (is/isn't) a hobby phone so please (do/don't) text or call me.
Thank you for your time and I hope we can see each other soon.
Sincerely,
(insert Hobbyist)
My ideal ISO?
My wife and I want a provider to join us. We have references.
I just love couples.
Hello (insert Provider),
I saw your (ad/posts) on (insert website) and would like to see you. (Insert compliment) I'm (insert general physical description). (Optional sharing of information to give a picture of personality) I would like to schedule an (incall/outcall) for (insert length of time) on (insert date) between (insert time range).
My references are (insert reference one with link to website or profile), (insert reference two with link to website or profile), and (insert reference three with link to website or profile). My phone number is (insert phone number). This (is/isn't) a hobby phone so please (do/don't) text or call me.
Thank you for your time and I hope we can see each other soon.
Sincerely,
(insert Hobbyist)
My ideal ISO?
My wife and I want a provider to join us. We have references.
I just love couples.
- GingerLyn Harte
- 03-25-2016, 09:47 AM
Sooooooo I vote to sticky SA angels post ..that was perfect and even a newbie with NO refs and that writing style would get me to double take the request...
Also Im a sucker for a free compliment hehe*!
As far as the iso is concerned...its funny the gents that post one every week/day...I always wonder why oh why can they not find their perfect lady? Are they too lazy to look...unwilling to pay asking price...or are they just unpleasent in general so the ladies do not wish to see them anymore..nothing alert worthy but untasteful all the same...
So when scanning isos I only click on the ones who are new to the section and seeking something that I offer
Also Im a sucker for a free compliment hehe*!
As far as the iso is concerned...its funny the gents that post one every week/day...I always wonder why oh why can they not find their perfect lady? Are they too lazy to look...unwilling to pay asking price...or are they just unpleasent in general so the ladies do not wish to see them anymore..nothing alert worthy but untasteful all the same...
So when scanning isos I only click on the ones who are new to the section and seeking something that I offer
- VictoriaLyn
- 03-25-2016, 10:43 AM
Sa Angel pretty much nailed it.
Request that I ignore are things like... Wanna party... Dick pic as first contact.. Looking for BB Or cbj
Request that I ignore are things like... Wanna party... Dick pic as first contact.. Looking for BB Or cbj
- Lena Duvall
- 03-25-2016, 11:07 AM
I respond to appointment requests that are real and convey a sense of care, intention, and thoughtfulness rather than ones that indicate that the inquire was overpowered by a sense of horniness that will soon dissipate. SA Angel gave a perfect example of a thoughtful inquiry.
On the flip side, fantasy and time wasting inquiries are ones that are ambiguous and lack pertinent details such as when, where, for how long, as well as screening information. For the most part, I've found that one liners like "Are you available" or fishing inquiries like "Do you do XYZ" aren't worth responding to.
On the flip side, fantasy and time wasting inquiries are ones that are ambiguous and lack pertinent details such as when, where, for how long, as well as screening information. For the most part, I've found that one liners like "Are you available" or fishing inquiries like "Do you do XYZ" aren't worth responding to.
- Blue_eyed_shy_guy
- 03-25-2016, 01:02 PM
Sooooooo I vote to sticky SA angels post ..that was perfect and even a newbie with NO refs and that writing style would get me to double take the request...When it comes to ISOs, sometimes I use a request as a check of how I'm seen by the provider community. If a guy puts up an ISO and *nobody* replies or PMs him, he can conclude that he's gotten a bad rep amongst the ladies for general unpleasantness or something worse. Sometimes, UTRs who might not advertise or new ladies who don't show up in the provider search engine might reply as well.
Also Im a sucker for a free compliment hehe*!
As far as the iso is concerned...its funny the gents that post one every week/day...I always wonder why oh why can they not find their perfect lady? Are they too lazy to look...unwilling to pay asking price...or are they just unpleasent in general so the ladies do not wish to see them anymore..nothing alert worthy but untasteful all the same...
So when scanning isos I only click on the ones who are new to the section and seeking something that I offer Originally Posted by GingerLyn Harte
When asked to say something about myself, I have to admit I have no idea what to write.. What's she actually looking for?
- Blue_eyed_shy_guy
- 03-25-2016, 01:06 PM
- Blue_eyed_shy_guy
- 03-26-2016, 12:49 PM
Here's a sample appointment request incorporating some of the advice on this thread and some stuff from my earlier real appointment requests. Tell me if I did it right, and if this would be worthy of a reply.
----snip----
Subject line: (Insert witty greeting here.)
Hi there Jenni..How's your afternoon going? I saw your latest ad on ECCIE (loved your subject line, and I think the little purple bikini goes very well with your complexion) and I was hoping you'd grant me the pleasure of your company this weekend.
Would you be willing to see a p411 verified 37 y/o, 6"0, white teddy bear for an incall appointment this upcoming Sunday at 2pm?
Really?
Ok, let me go get him.
*walks out, wait 5 seconds, walks back in*
Hello there.
My last visits with providers were with:
MissyModelBody , who can be reached by PM or at her cell phone at 512-555-1001
TammyTugsBetter , who can be reached by PM or her email address at TammyTugsBetter@escortmail.net
BettysBetterBootyCalls , who can be reached by PM, email at AnonymousBabyGirl@fakeemail.co m , or by calling her provider-only screening line at 737-555-6969.
And last but not least,
YourSecretGFE, who can be reached by PM, her email address at VickiVice50@police.austintexas .gov , or her phone number at 512-974-4786.
(Ok, I was just kidding with that last reference.
)
If there's any additional information you need, please feel free to contact me at my dedicated hobby phone # by text at 512-555-1414.
Thank you, and I hope to hear from you soon.
,
-Ray (aka BigCuddleBear)
----snip----
Subject line: (Insert witty greeting here.)
Hi there Jenni..How's your afternoon going? I saw your latest ad on ECCIE (loved your subject line, and I think the little purple bikini goes very well with your complexion) and I was hoping you'd grant me the pleasure of your company this weekend.
Would you be willing to see a p411 verified 37 y/o, 6"0, white teddy bear for an incall appointment this upcoming Sunday at 2pm?
Really?
Ok, let me go get him.
*walks out, wait 5 seconds, walks back in*
Hello there.
My last visits with providers were with:
MissyModelBody , who can be reached by PM or at her cell phone at 512-555-1001
TammyTugsBetter , who can be reached by PM or her email address at TammyTugsBetter@escortmail.net
BettysBetterBootyCalls , who can be reached by PM, email at AnonymousBabyGirl@fakeemail.co m , or by calling her provider-only screening line at 737-555-6969.
And last but not least,
YourSecretGFE, who can be reached by PM, her email address at VickiVice50@police.austintexas .gov , or her phone number at 512-974-4786.
(Ok, I was just kidding with that last reference.
)If there's any additional information you need, please feel free to contact me at my dedicated hobby phone # by text at 512-555-1414.
Thank you, and I hope to hear from you soon.
,-Ray (aka BigCuddleBear)
- BiancaBonVivant
- 03-26-2016, 01:47 PM
This (is/isn't) a hobby phone so please (do/don't) text or call me.
Originally Posted by SA Angel
This part is crucial!
Unless you state, unequivocally, that I can text you *WHENEVER* I will not text or call anyone. Ever. I don't want to text or call you at all times, but I need to know your phone is secure at all times. I've had a wife or two call me in the past because a dude left a phone in the wrong place. It's not fun.
- TemptationTammie
- 03-26-2016, 01:49 PM
I think when it comes to ISOs, the guy should put what part of town he's in if that's important - North, South, etc.
There have been a few times that I'll PM a guy only to be told that they are looking for someone near CP or in south Austin. Also, if the guy is only looking for a certain age, that can also let ladies of that age respond.
There are times when I will PM a guy, but not post in their ISO. Not all ladies who are available to fill an ISO will post in the thread, but prefer to PM.
There have been a few times that I'll PM a guy only to be told that they are looking for someone near CP or in south Austin. Also, if the guy is only looking for a certain age, that can also let ladies of that age respond.
There are times when I will PM a guy, but not post in their ISO. Not all ladies who are available to fill an ISO will post in the thread, but prefer to PM.