She didn't count the money

Seriously guys!??!? I don't know who the hell it was but an old friend from Ep said someone was gloating about the lady not counting the donation. Are you kidding me?!??!
Do you want her to her shorted? Do you want her to lose money??

I know your little brains aren't thinking in the right frame at times but two things.

When you mention she didn't count the money, you're then telling another hobbyist who may not be as honest as you are, that on a 200 donation he can slip by without putting the full donation down and short her, and will she notice, Nope. Because you made it very obvious she isn't going to touch it. Dumbass

Second she's not a clock watcher we ran way way over and she didn't charge me extra. Once again you're letting hobbyist know that the lady will easily be taken advantage of because you got 90 minutes for 60 so why can't he??

Come on guys. This isn't fucking rocket science. Not EVERYTHING on a lady needs to be spoken about. Some things are going to be special for YOU! They are done because they enjoy/trust you. Don't be a dumbass and write down everything assholes needed to screw a lady over.

On that note a clock watcher is NOT someone who allows the time to run over. A clock watcher only means that she didn't rush you and shove your ass out the door right on the hour. If you go over a ladies time, pay the lady for the time you took outside of your paid time.

Okay. Going back to my corner of the Web now. Lol

I now tell the lady to count the money or ask her if she did count the money and if the donation was correct.

I've also started something new. At some point during the session if things are going well. I say I brought extra money and if we go over I'll tip her.

The provider has said ok cool or that's fine. As I am getting ready to leave I ask how we are on time. So I kind of leave it up to her.

I started doing this because of a VP in Dallas used a timer and it went off during the session. It was set to go off 10 minutes before the scheduled session time was to end.

This is the first I have heard of anyone using a timer lol... There are some guys who will try and take advantage of a provider and go over the time. Guys know if they last long or not and know how much time they need... I had a guy who got a 30 min session and the bitch was not even close to coming he said he sometimes takes a long time wtf so then why not get an hour. I told his ass he needs to pay for an hour or he gotta go... Now I try and avoid 30 mins sessions unless I have seen the guy before...

Like your style !!! Great observation. But then again, we are a bunch of dumbasses trying to get the pu$$y! What do you expect from a bunch of Neanderthal men?

This does not fit in the "Alert" category since it is not specific to the endangerment of the community. Moving to COED.

that whole "time ran way over" thing is fucking bullshit and it annoys me to no end. it's a disservice to the lady and to her future clients. it's almost like these fucking dipshits want to brag about how they got extra time. nobody gives a fuck. half of everything written in reviews is bullshit, anyway. regardless, if a lady chooses to be generous with her time, that should remain strictly between you and her.

I agree with JD completely on this one.

Exactly!!!

I really don't understand a lot of the BS that goes on here. A planned session is to be with a gentleman on this site and a provider that is a lady, friendly, and enjoys entertaining. That is my take and I always leave the donations or gifts in plan site when I arrive and if she decides to count it no problem, most 99% don't as they have checked my references and know I treat others as they treat me. No one has ever put a timer on with me but I always try to not overstay my time unless discussed upfront.
There will always be a few asshole gentleman, and a few providers that think by the minute to not give you more than they feel you deserve, but in my time with eccie, they are very few.
Conduct yourself as a lady and or gentleman and treat people right and the hobby can be a lot of fun and you can make some lasting friends.
I have many nice ladies I have become friends with in the hobby life and treasure them as I do all my friends. It is a people business not a transaction in a retail store or drive through service.
Just my two cents.

yup.

My only disagreement with the original is about the title. To me, when a poster says she didn't count the money it means that the provider trusted the client. It is not really code that we can rip off that provider because she is so naive she doesn't count the money. I am sure that any client that tries to shortchange providers on a regular basis will be outed, just as providers that upcharge or don't provide agreed on services is outed.

I met with some one the other day for the first time and I wasn't there to rip her off. I guess she was comfortable with me, she never collected the donation in front of me but I left it in plain site fanned out on a night stand. Was she trusting, maybe I'm trustworthy. I been with QV who get pushy when your taking too long on a QV this young lady was very relaxed and I never felt rushed. I on the other knowing better and knowing this was not a GFE experience rushed my self. I do think I stayed within the parameters of the QV and everyone was happy or content.

Oldpun is dead on, guys mention that in reviews as a preferable behavior during the session so as not to make it uncomfortable. We all know why we are there and that it costs a donation but behaving as if the donation isn't there or an issue sets us at ease, doesn't create an awkward moment waiting on the count, and also contributes to the gfe or iop aspect of a session. I've never taken the mention of not counting as an indication a provider can be ripped off, and it's mentioned in a lot of reviews as a positive aspect of the session. It's actually better for the providers business. It is also mentioned if the provider does count the money, as a negative aspect of the session. My opinion, more pointless drama created by op over something that is standard practice.

I'm curious? When you go to McDonald's and purchase food. And you pay in cash. Hand her a bunch of 1s, does she count it? Yes. Most women SHOULD count the money. I am not in any form saying that most the fine gentlemen here would rip off a lady, but there are plenty of men who do do it in hopes she won't notice. You're giving these guys the green light. It shouldn't be awkward whatsoever. This is a paid transaction. And these backpage girls that never make it on to forum boards won't know that someone is saying that she doesn't count her money so there is no way for her to be more precarious. And obviously I'm not talking about guys who see girls more than once, I'm talking about the one time backpage girls and the assholes who do lurk the boards.

it's simple.

1. pay up front.

2. tell them to count the money.

3. forget about the money.

4. have great sex.

if you're not doing it that way you're doing it wrong.