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I wonder if when in the same city limits if providers and clients were to ever pass each other in circumstances other than appointments? If you were to run into someone you've had appointments with, say, in a bar or at the grocery store would you acknowledge each other by name or pretend you were strangers? Is there a particular code of conduct? I myself once had a long time friend known to the escort community I guess. We went out for drinks and dinner and a known provider made eye contact with him and said his name as she greeted him. Is that kosher?
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that all depends on the level between client and provider! if you know each other by rw names then probably not a big deal. but if I saw a provider out in public and we only know each other by our online persona then that's not ok. it also depends on if the provider is with someone be it bf husband or another client. then probably best to just walk on by unless she initiates the conversation.
Laurence1201's Avatar
I'd suggest always erring on the side of caution. Don't acknowledge the person. You can always follow up later with a text, email or phone call to say "saw you and wanted to say hello, but didn't want to put you in a difficult situation"
stupendous's Avatar
A wink and a smile, then move along.
I usually point and in a loud voice say, hey look, it's that hooker from eccie.
CaptainKaos's Avatar
This is a small town. Worlds collide all of the time.
I like my real world life and hobby life to remain independent of each other so I respect them that way. I have come across a couple ladies I had a date with and just minded my business and moved along...

I later PM'd to apologize if I came across as rude and that I meant no disrespect - that I just like my hobby world discrete...

all good...
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  • 04-15-2016, 12:31 PM
I wonder if when in the same city limits if providers and clients were to ever pass each other in circumstances other than appointments? If you were to run into someone you've had appointments with, say, in a bar or at the grocery store would you acknowledge each other by name or pretend you were strangers? Is there a particular code of conduct? I myself once had a long time friend known to the escort community I guess. We went out for drinks and dinner and a known provider made eye contact with him and said his name as she greeted him. Is that kosher? Originally Posted by Y_eye_AwE_Ta
It depends upon how well they know each other and on what terms. There are a number of ladies I know their real names, some of their real world persona, and have gone to dinner or an outing with srperate from escorting. Those I would a knowledge, talk with, etc. Some have approached me to introduce the friend or colleague they were with.

If I don't know them well enough to great them by their real name and carry on a RW conversation, then I do NOT acknowledge I know them.
I probs wouldn't recognize a gentleman friend in public just because I pretty much always forget to wear my glasses even though I can't see shit without them. But even if I did actually spot someone from the hobby, I'd pretend like I didn't know them. Like a lot of people, I'm very much into keeping my fun hobby life out of my dull real life. I mean, even if they weren't with someone at the time I saw them, if they have friends or anything near by, they might be faced with some awkward questions and I hardly want to have to explain to anyone I'm with why some rando guy they've never met before is calling me "Mina." Seems like acknowledging people outside of dates has just a huge potential to bring all kinds of drama and complications and very little--if any--pay off.
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I probs wouldn't recognize a gentleman friend in public just because I pretty much always forget to wear my glasses even though I can't see shit without them ... Originally Posted by Mina Harker
ROFLMAO!

As to the OP: discretion, first and foremost.