How do u handle when someone gives you a False BAD review?

I have Never received bad review. There's a new member on the sites that fir odd reason fingered me to harrass. My reviews have been impecable and then to see a negative mark completely blew me away. I have no worries that it will affect my business because anyone thats met with me knows that it isn't true. It's just the principle of the matter! I noticed he posted two other reviews on 2white providers that were positive. Are we still living in some ice age where we are judged by the color of our skin opposed to the content of our character??? What a Horrible Jerk u are!
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I would hope it was not a race issue as you stated. The reviews are from the perspective of the hobbyists and should always be as factual as possible without degrading remarks. I feel in most cases the reviewers on eccie are more factual in their reviews and that is the reason I prefer this site. That still does not keep me from checking multiple sites on reviews for a lady I have an interest in seeing to try and be sure that someone is not in a get even mode because of something that happened and is trying to trash the provider. Even if a hobbyists meets a provider that was not what he expected, I would hope he would keep the review limited and not trash the provider and just not recommend her. Don't know the reason this individual might have done like they did, but people do odd and crazy things at times that they should not do.


Since it was the only bad review you've had, I would try my best to forget it and let it slide and just remember there are all types of people in the world some good and some otherwise. Continuing to dwell on it will not change anything. Best wishes, keep smiling and be the best you can be!!

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e.com used to allow you to comment on a review. They may have chaned that when they reformatted the site. I found the review a bit puzzling. Why would he return for a second appointment if he doesn't find you recommendable? However, I don't see that this is a race issue or he would not have made an appointment at all (certainly not twice).
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I must agree with Mister on that. My first comment was before I saw your reviews on the other site. I do not believe this individual would have returned for a second visit if race was an issue. Never know what might set someone off like that. Read all of your other reviews and they are very good, even one from this guy. I would say most people reading all of the reviews like I did would see through what that individual did on his last review and not take it seriously. Know it makes you upset, but like I said before, not a whole lot can be done about that individual. I would work with the other site to explain the situation and see about getting the review pulled. Good luck!

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Thanks guys for the feedback. I think I didn't explain myself well enough. I never seen this guy! I don't even know who he is. That's why I was really bent out of shape. If the date had actually taken place I wld have been able to have something to go on as to why he wsnt happy, (no ones every left me uphappy) I'm assuming it's the jerk that called that nite but was upset when i didn't offer to negotiate my price. He got upset and hung up on me. But as God is my witness I have NO idea who this jerk is.
I did contact e.com and they have removed it.
I really appreciate the feedback guys, Sincerely Mauhhhh
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u got it babe. Have a good one

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I consider myself the avg hobbist, and when i'm researching someone, I would never let one or two bad review stop me from seeing a provider if i'm interested. Let's say that you have 30 positive reviews and 2 negative ones, the way that I look at it is that you probably had chemistry issues with those two. I haven't clicked with every provider that i've met, but i've never had a bad session. So what i'm trying to say beautiful is, don't sweat one bad review. Long term, the positive will outweigh the negative.
Mauhhhh!!!Thankyou guys