Frog- NOT a gentleman

Havens_Brooke's Avatar
Have to vent here for a second:

I was out to lunch when I recieved a text from this man (Frog). I have never seen him before.

He texted me and asked if we could meet. I told him that I was out having lunch and that I would get back to him when I was finished.
He proceeded to to me that he was ready asap and wanted my address....

I'm trying to have a nice lunch, since I never get out to enjoy myself very often.
About 20 minutes later, he proceeds to text me again, calling me a jerk and telling me to fuck off. (Mind you, I have been absoloutly professional with him, up until this point!!!)

WTF????? Are you serious right now???? I couldn't believe what I was reading.
I JUST told you that I was out to lunch and that I would reply when I was done and available.

It's amazing to me how some men on here treat us ladies. We have feelings too. Some men are just babies!!!!!! AND ASSHOLES!!!!!! UGH!!

Ahhhh, I feel better
From what you relate there was no excuse for him to freak out on you like that. In the future, IMMEDIATELY set an expectation if someone tries to see you short notice. Give them a time that you are 100% sure you will be able to see them. That way you and your clients both don't waste time if they have a narrow window.
John4229's Avatar
Narrow window or not, "jerk" and "fuck off" are uncalled for. "Sorry, I've not much time and can't wait. Maybe another time? Enjoy your lunch." would likely be in order.

I'd make some clever remark about the frog that never became a prince ... but it does seem a bit to obvious, doesn't it?
DocHolyday's Avatar
Gentlemen, that's no way to talk to the ladies. Be respectful. Frog, do you think that kind of vile language is going to make the lady anything but pissed off? Think about it!! Ladies, gentlemen, good evening!
Just think of how many frogs you have to kiss to find a prince.
Just think of how many frogs you have to kiss to find a prince. Originally Posted by submarineracer
Kiss? I think the frogs are hoping for much more!

On an entirely serious note: Havens_Brooke, get used to it as an occupational hazard. Expect to encounter men who cannot get sex except by paying for it -- which, in their twisted minds, entitles them to demean women who accept pay for sex.
+1 BP.
legbrker's Avatar
I do not know why anyone would treat someone else this way except to say that they must be very selfish. Havens Brooke offers companionship that is in a word EXEMPLARY . I found her to be classy,relaxing and real. I hate to hear that she was treated with such disrespect by a fellow monger...NOT COOL!!
JohnnyYanks's Avatar
An unfortunate, but nonetheless, rivet-ing tale. Bad frog.
Txsunman's Avatar
frog or TOAD?