Escort dawn who tried sugarbaby says:
i've tried the sugardaddy route and honestly, most of them just seem like they want to monopolize you and your time. not for me. now i can see as few or as many clients as i want to make more money and i probably have less sex actually. and i get to have sex with more varied partners. like if you have a sugardaddy who's really shit at sex - then what? just stick it out? what if he's taking up too much of your time and not giving you enough money to cover your needs? you're supposed to keep feignng that you're doing it for his company (therefore differentiating yourself from common heuxs like me)? the whole thing is too fuzzy-lined for a practical woman like me. (Dave note has to look up what a heuxs is - fancy word for Hoe or "side chick")
the whole sugardaddy/sugarbaby thing is not at all different from prostitution. anyone who is trying to tell themselves that it's not sex work is delusional. it's basically sex work with more ambiguous boundaries.
Very active man says:
Personally i would rather pay out less money to more women for sex. If i want more than sex then i would do (the) dating game. But honestly not really interested in paying a sugar baby to take a trip with me.
But dawn has some good points. I think good negotiations would mitigate someone who is taking up too much time or not paying accordingly. Also a trial period would help a person decide if they could do it for longer. Anyway great to hear from someone who has experienced it.
Dave note this is from Canada where there are no real legal issues regarding consenting private adults vs. the U.S.