Why I prefer to see ladies who screen well

1) safety. A lady who screens me well is presumably screening other gentlemen. She is more likely to be safe and secure in everything that she does, not seeing unsafe guys. I feel more secure going to visit her. My risk is greatly reduced.

2) comfort. A lady who has screened me already knows some things about me and has a better comfort that I value her safety. We have surely spoken by phone. Her comfort is a good foundation for a great GFE. And I feel more comfortable at a first meeting.

3) TCB. A lady who takes the time (and maybe some $) to screen is IMO much less likely to NCNS, will have better Taking-Care-of-Business skills, and will be more organized with clean incall. She has already put more effort into the date than a non-screener/light screener/intuition-only screener. So if someone else calls her after I have arranged a date, she will be less likely to drop me or delay my date to fit another guy in for the last minute quick extra $.


In my experience, I have never been NCNSed by ladies who screen well; the girls who have NCNSed me gave me clear signs of poor screening. Oh, I understand that ladies will often screen in ways that I don't realize. I do know that when I request a date through P411, it worries me if a provider does not take the time to view my profile and see who has given me okays. I would presume that she would do that and contact some of my previous dates.

How well a lady has screened me is taken into account when I consider whether to contact a lady for a return date.

Very well said, and I know that ladies, such as myself, are grateful that you appreciate the extra efforts we make to ensure a quality encounter the first time, in the hopes that a great friendship is formed for the future! Kudos to you!

Sweet kisses,
Staci

Completely agree with Redwolf's articulate commentary! The level of professionalism is much higher, in my opinion, when providers use P411. I try to see only those who are P411 members. (talked to a visiting provider last night who is not on P411. She said she tried to become a member but did not have good provider references)

The security/screening precautions taken are both "good for her, and good for him".

It's a double screening really, usually I screen/research her way more than she would ever screen me before I even contact her.

I agree. I try to screen them as much as they screen me.