How much of a good thing, is to much?

a click me to hear
One Is the Loneliest Number

"two can be as bad as one"

So I try to keep to three. mmmm song done by Three Dog Night. and I'm a dog. And keep to three. the nights of all three, one at a time, dead dog night.
Anyways

In the hobby I always try to keep in the extra good graces to three providers. This can and has driven me nuts. I know, short trip. A hobby buddy has told me my problem is all three know each other. Well I found them all in the same bar. But what if I found them all on the old ASPD or here ECCIE, even add e.com. Would they not still all know each other?

How many are to few
How many are well to many
Is it good/bad that they know each other (for me it has been both at times)

The Hobby to me has been more like shopping. Not for great ass. Not even for the most class. But looking to add to the list for one that I can have a blast with. Not forgetting you will not click with all, and not all in the same way. And there is nothing wrong with just a business relation. MMM they all stated that way come to think of it.

I do find it harder to find over a board. I find a bar is much easier. But that is almost dead way. to bad.

But how many can one share extra with???????? if any????

Wish I could meet every provider in Roch area for a drink that is on this board. But then that may make me a true hobbyist again. A little boy in the candy shop. I want to try each. mmmm here has been safer for me, maybe to safe.
OSD

edit: trying to earn to bring "woof" back as my avatar, but thread drift ok by me!!!!!!

It would be awsome to meet each and everyone, but then again, that would take NB type of "scratch", that would be a tall order and uphill battle for most. Believe me , I gave it "the ole college try" for many years,has left me alittle "short" as of late, in my most humble opinion, think you have it right..

I was thinking met all. Not BCD with all. Like going to a strip club, you could talk to all the dancers. But only take one to VIP room, or none, to many. I like the face to face, will I as she is doing the same. It hard to describe how much different it is sitting in a bar with 30 guys as 10 good providers work the bar unless you have been there. There are not any good bars for that any more. Making your mind up in person is nothing like over the net.